[Virginity] - Why the discrepancy between men and women? Not fair.

[PizzaSHARK]

Sure men have big dicks in porn but if reality presented the same then it doesn't have negative ramifications at all.

I wasn't actually referring to the size of the stud's schlong when I said unrealistic expectations.

[Jakexe]

Hey, asexuals are real normal people too

I know an asexual personally and discussing the idea was topic was so strange but after a long talk about it and it still doesn't make sense but each to their own.

EDIT: I wanted to have my 1000 post be epic, dinosaur pirates.

[Iamanerd]

When it comes to this, it's a matter of personal preference. If you want to lose it then so be it and if not then who the fuck cares. I got a buddy who's 24 and he just said he didn't really care to much but I've had other friends who lost it the second they could. Honestly whatever makes you happy in the end is the right choice for you, not what others say you should or shouldn't do.

[Puck]

I wasn't actually referring to the size of the stud's schlong when I said unrealistic expectations.

The first time I took off a mans pants, I won't lie, I was disappointed.

[Axehandle]

Something that has always bothered me. I know that when I was in college (my first semester ever) there was this girl I met at a Freshman only event and she practically threw herself at me. I could have gone for the kill but getting a young woman pregnant outside of marriage would put shame to our family name and future weddings wouldn't be blessed.

I told some close friends about it and they looked at me weird when I told them that I was still a virgin. How come its us guys that look like aliens or foreign creatures if we haven't "gone in the for kill" yet? However, if girls/women lose theirs, then they are "whores".

Doesn't make sense - why doesn't everyone just save themselves for marriage, so that their significant other will have the keys to their partners' respective gardens? Please enlighten me. I had to leave a groups of friends yesterday because they laughed at my virgin status.

First off champ don't pat yourself on the back to hard over your supposed ability to get this girl you turned down pregnant. Typically guys that are virgins are so excited to lose it they dont know how to perform. You get better with experience. So my guess is you'd be in and out in less than a minute. Maybe that would bring shame on you being a minuteman who knows?

[Rukentuts]

I don't think you need to be an asexual to not have a sex drive.

Yes, but then it could be labeled as a dysfunctionality. Sexual attractive and sex drive are two different things.

[PizzaSHARK]

Some asexuals can and do self gratification.

Wouldn't asexuality just be defined as a lack of libido/sexual drive? If you have a normal, healthy libido I don't really think it can be called asexuality. You are definitely feeling sexual attraction and desire, there's just something getting in the way of your going through on those hormonal frenzies.

[Gamdwelf]

I know an asexual personally and discussing the idea was topic was so strange but after a long talk about it and it still doesn't make sense but each to their own.

I think pansexuals make less sense than asexuals.

[Kurioxan]

On a unrelated note, did you know that males can lactate if properly stimulated?

[Deleted]

I wasn't actually referring to the size of the stud's schlong when I said unrealistic expectations.

Ah ok, so care to elaborate please?

[Letmesleep]

Some asexuals can and do self gratification.

I believe it, but then what is the object of their desire which allows them...ehem..happiness?

[Puck]

are pedophiles normal too since its just a sexuality?

Pedophilia isn't a sexuality.

[Rukentuts]

I know an asexual personally and discussing the idea was topic was so strange but after a long talk about it and it still doesn't make sense but each to their own.

Then here's the short version. Some people are sexually attracted to the opposite gender, some people the same gender, some people both genders, and some people neither.

[PizzaSHARK]

The first time I took off a mans pants, I won't lie, I was disappointed.

Not gonna lie, that's something you should never tell a guy unless you're COMPLETELY sure he won't take it the wrong way. As stupid as it seems, most guys are pretty sensitive about that size of their anatomy, especially when it's a girl (or a guy if they swing the other way, I guess) making fun of it.

[semaphore]

are pedophiles normal too

Sure, why not.

As long as you don't act on those feelings I see no reason to be alarmist over it.

since its just a sexuality?

It's more like a fetish.

[Rukentuts]

I believe it, but then what is the object of their desire which allows them...ehem..happiness?

Physical release, nothing really anything else.

[Letmesleep]

On a unrelated note, did you know that males can lactate if properly stimulated?

I have nipples, Greg, can you milk me?

Zing!

[Gamdwelf]

Pedophilia isn't a sexuality.

yeah ur attracted to kids.

[Kurioxan]

I think pansexuals make less sense than asexuals.

Why? pansexual simply means bisexual who is also into transsexuals and other things.

Sexual attraction doesnt make much sense there are people who have sex with their cars and feel aroused by them.

[Rukentuts]

I have nipples, Greg, can you milk me?

Zing!

"You tried to milk him didn't you, you sick son of a bitch." - Jack Burns.