If a player enters and start with saying he is new to the game or just dinged 90 or whatever reason i normally give that person alot more slack than one come in and starts the world of excuses when he fails on something again if that person instead says sorry it was my foult again i dont mind it.
What i dont like are people comming in expecting to be carried through with no effort just becouse they are in Blues and some greens and plays the my gear excouse. So i guess its more about how people behave to the giving situation.