When a guy says "It's fine"..

[Laqweeta]

From one female to another: If you keep freaking out over every little thing, you will not only lose him, you will also gain a reputation as the crazy chick which will make you undateable. Stop caring about him so much, that tends to make things a LOT better in a relationship.

It's hard Crissi, it really is .. I care for him SO, sooo.. so much.....

[Digglett]

I know. I understand.. The internet is ALL MALES. But I am a female... I don't want to admit it, but in this situation I have to. It's really whatever. Think of me as a guy if it makes it easier I guess

I will give you sagely advice here. Stop it. Stop over thinking this, it's not a big deal and that is even if he didn't like the picture. If you continue to blow this up and make it out to be this gigantic issue then it will become one.

He doesn't like the picture, so what? He's probably a little insecure and afraid of guys flirting, it's not really that abnormal of behavior. You'll live.

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It's hard Crissi, it really is .. I care for him SO, sooo.. so much.....

This is making me retch, time to get back to my Siberian midget porn...

Jesus.

[Deleted]

How the fuck do ppl make their lives so goddamn complicated.
Keep this up and you will die young. Its not healthy.

[Deleted]

Just drop it and don't pester him with minuscule issues. But just to break it down to you.

"I don't like that picture"= Take it down please.
"It's fine"= Let's not EVER talk about it again, it's fine.
"Ignoring"= He think's an apology is in place, preferably of oral nature. :>

[Laqweeta]

From one female to another: If you keep freaking out over every little thing, you will not only lose him, you will also gain a reputation as the crazy chick which will make you undateable. Stop caring about him so much, that tends to make things a LOT better in a relationship.

It's hard Crissi, it really is .. I care for him SO, sooo.. so much.....

[Crissi]

It's hard Crissi, it really is .. I care for him SO, sooo.. so much.....

One of my biggest problems is over thinking. That tended to frustrate the ever living hell out of my ex (he's my ex for different reasons). grab a hobby, hang with friends, gossip with other girls, go to amusement parks ect.

A girl is much more attractive when she has her own life. Ive been head over heals for someone. What made the guys keep coming back was the times I wasnt available and was doing my own thing so I had stories to share!

[DarkArchon]

LOL! Maybe that's because I need more than ONE fucking opinion? Jesus Christ >.>

Yes because 200 random opinions is far less confusing and more constructive *Hangs head* No saving this one. *Packs bags*

[Laqweeta]

One of my biggest problems is over thinking. That tended to frustrate the ever living hell out of my ex (he's my ex for different reasons). grab a hobby, hang with friends, gossip with other girls, go to amusement parks ect.

A girl is much more attractive when she has her own life. Ive been head over heals for someone. What made the guys keep coming back was the times I wasnt available and was doing my own thing so I had stories to share!

I've read this before.... But honestly.. I can't help it . I'm one of those girls that would rather spend time with him than my friends... >.<

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Yes because 200 random opinions is far less confusing and more constructive *Hangs head* No saving this one. *Packs bags*

BYE! :-) /10char

[Celista]

I think you're overthinking things. Unless you're giving another guy a blowjob or something in that fb picture, you are very likely overreacting.

[Zelerena]

Did you just say because we don't layer our words in deceit and double meaning we are simple minded?

I've dated a lot of deceitful men. Almost all my ex's have cheated on me. Sorry I have a jaded heart when it comes to them. And yes men tend to say exactly how they are feeling. There is usually no back thought to what they say. They act on Gut instinct most of the time. Women tend to think too much, and usually play mind games. I know I'm right about some things.

[DarkArchon]

I've read this before.... But honestly.. I can't help it . I'm one of those girls that would rather spend time with him than my friends... >.<

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BYE! :-) /10char

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.......That right there just proved your attention grabbing. Layed the trap and walked right into it.

[Calzaeth]

LOL! Maybe that's because I need more than ONE fucking opinion? Jesus Christ >.>

Take a deep breath, and save your replies for the helpful comments. Just a friendly tip

[Crissi]

I've read this before.... But honestly.. I can't help it . I'm one of those girls that would rather spend time with him than my friends... >.<

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BYE! :-) /10char

Well you have to force yourself to change. it takes time, and as you get older and have more relationships (because the first rarely ever results in marriage), it'll get easier.

Think of something you like to do without him, and do it. Cause if you dont, you'll probably end up losing him from overly smothering.

[Laqweeta]

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO.......That right there just proved your attention grabbing. Layed the trap and walked right into it.

uhm... Kay. But I'm really not, but whatever.. You have your own opinions.

[An-Tuirseach]

Unless he's a passive-aggressive asshole (in which case, bail), fine meant "fine." It was okay. How can you misinterpret that unless you're deliberately looking for more meaning than what's there?

[Aeluron Lightsong]

I've dated a lot of deceitful men. Almost all my ex's have cheated on me. Sorry I have a jaded heart when it comes to them. And yes men tend to say exactly how they are feeling. There is usually no back thought to what they say. They act on Gut instinct most of the time. Women tend to think too much, and usually play mind games. I know I'm right about some things.

I hide some of my feelings. Some of them. That and I'm shy as fuck.

[Evil Inside]

I have.. He said "It's fine"

When we say "It's fine" then everything is actually alright, we're simple to understand. We dont use double-meanings so there is no need to look deeper into it.

[Xalzel]

Sounds like that's a conversation you should have with him, instead of random strangers on the internet that can only guess. He can give you a better answer then any of us.

I know it sounds really crazy, but it just might work.

Why is your name DarkArchon but you're using an avatar of Tassadar D: it's bothering me

[Laqweeta]

Well you have to force yourself to change. it takes time, and as you get older and have more relationships (because the first rarely ever results in marriage), it'll get easier.

Think of something you like to do without him, and do it. Cause if you dont, you'll probably end up losing him from overly smothering.

I think about this ALL the time.. We talk, text.. hangout allllllllllllllllllllllll the time, almost every single second... I don't know what to do.. I ask him if I'm "talking" too much.. and he responds with "the most beautiful girl talking to me, no way" o-o