okay so stop harping on the 1 weapon thing it was just a small thing, 3 relics is still more than 1 weapon (or even two for dual wielders but OH is usually just a stat stick)
furthermore, relics are easy to come by because gear is much easier to come by, just imagine every single relic that comes from your weekly mythic chest would be a complete weapon, any relic you get from the relinquished tokens would be a weapon. unless blizzard arbitrarily limits weapon drops compared to relic drops we'll be swimming in them.
and it's gonna be much easier to find a decent weapon too because it's not gonna be able to roll with 0 dps traits like half the relics do
and thirdly, why does it matter who gets the first weapon in a raid grp? if you got a proper loot system the guy who could use it the most to benefit the raid will get it, and that's the entire point of gearing really. to beat the bosses with it. sure it feels shit when you're not that guy, but that doesnt mean it's a bad thing that he has it.