No problem, I'm just trying to explain something that's pretty hard to imagine unless one has to deal with it full time. The words are easy enough to read, but that doesn't help one understand at more than a basic level. Imagine an elephant. You can read the heck out of what an elephant is. You can watch videos. Until you stand right next to one the smell doesn't hit you, and you may find yourself adjusting your idea of scale.
One can read the heck out of Hall, Nesbitt or Lewis, but it isn't the same as spending year after year in an environment. We put so much emphasis on individuals and personal responsibility that trying to explain the social element of a high context environment in a low context setting seems like a cop out. It isn't, it's a different value system. Seen the other way around, individualism and personal responsibility without social context come across as self entitled and arrogant. This is why Chinese going to the US either learn to make adjustments, or they stay in their own circle. North Americans and Europeans do the same thing here.
Let me try a different comparison -- nationality. You have one. I won't presume to know your views on it so I'm going to go out on a limb and use @
Under Your Spell as an example since she is already in this thread. I'm going to guess that to some degree her nationality is something she sees as a part of who she is. She might have little to no interest in immigrating and even if she were issued a foreign passport it might not change how she saw herself. Issues that another person might see as more distant may be things she sees as reflecting on herself, and if she were suddenly without any nationality and unable to associate with anyone from her country that might be a pretty harsh blow. To be Chinese (or South Korean, perhaps also Japanese) the association with family is similar, as is the price of being cut off. Even the difficulty of separating yourself from family would be similar; family tablets aren't quite the thing they used to be but there is still the hukou -- it defines you as part of a family, defines your residence according to the government, and from there defines everything from your ability to buy property to getting medical care. For this comparison, the low context individual comes off like someone from the sovereign citizen movement.