Dating: 5 Turn ons :) 5 Turn Offs :(

[Violent]

Is it time for another round of "dogpile the korean girl"?

If she looks like her avatar pic, I'll give her any "pile" she wants.

[Spectral]

Koreans. My parents want me to date only koreans preferably but they don't mind white men if they've got a good education and job.

I'm a white guy that dated a girl from Seoul for about 3 years and that was basically their stance - grudging acceptance because I'm sufficiently educated.

It's pretty funny how many people think this is just awful. I'd go the opposite direction and say that it's pretty pathetic how many parents are willing to accept their kids making poor choices or having low standards. Obviously I don't personally care about matching ethnicity, but having a criterion that basically says, "better if same ethnicity, but fine if educated and successful" is a lot better than "it's all about love" if you want to actually get married and stay married.

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"4) Very physical, open to lots of massaging etc. throughout the day"

That isn't something people do often, even when madly in love. It's hysterical that this sounds like a requirement. lol

This back and forth is pretty funny. It pretty much reinforces why @Ahovv would bother thinking that this is something worth thinking about - some people think that even people who are madly in love aren't that physical and others touch each other all the time. I'm more in the @Ahovv camp on this one and have definitely known women that just don't like to be touched as frequently as would be my habit.

[Deleted]

5 turn ons:

1. caucasian
2. has a job
3. mentally and physically active
4. loyal
5. kind

5 turn offs

1. not a caucasian
2. lazy, fat pig
3. prideful
4. irresponsible
5. selfish

[Independent voter]

1. I'm attracted to her.
2. She can put up with my crap.

The rest doesn't matter.

[Templar 331]

Turn on:

1. Pretty face.
2. Long hair.
3. Soft voice.
4. Supportive personality.
5. Can stand being around me.

Turn off:

1. Ugly face.
2. Hair that has been bleached way to much.
3. Shrill voice.
4. Manipulative, drama driven personality.
5. Would rather be with a man who kicked her to the curb than me. (Yes there's a story behind that one.)

[lonely zergling]

Good:

white/asian race
blonde/red hair
blue / green eyes
is independend / making her own money
same goals in life

Bad:

black woman
black hair / brown eyes
religion especially islam
taller than me
radical feminist

[Darklurker]

Pros:
Clever
A sense of humor, preferably dark
Tall
Black or red hair (natural)
Pale skin

No-nos:
Religious
Smoking
Has or want children
Jealousy or drama in general
Stupidity

[Hodacia]

Couple of ons:
Great humor and an open mind
Interested in both sports and nerdy stuff
Smells good
Self-confident
Good at cooking, I hate it myself so I prefer doing other domestic chores instead
When it comes to appearance I like a bit dark facial features and taller then myself

And offs:
Boastful
Selfish and greedy
Stupid and ignorant
Bad hygiene ofc
Looking at the world/people as either black or white and nothing in between

[Dwarfhamster]

Welcome back Digital Dream, you and @Freighter have a lot in Common

See Mall, you keep referring to @Freighter and giving her a hard time over her preferences while entirely ignoring others who have preferences such as only whites or no Asian, no blacks, no Arabs, etc. Did Freighter reject your advances or you feel inadequate to her preferences or something, because I'm feeling you have something personal against her.

[Deleted]

Is this sims 3?

[Emode]

Turn On:
1. Red Heads
2. Intellect
3. Lots of tattoos / piercings (not tramp stamps)
4. Sense of humour
5. Confidence


Turn Offs:
1. Fat
2. Wears too much make up
3. Overly sexual
4. Sheep mentality
5. Smoking

[Daneman]

If she looks like her avatar pic, I'll give her any "pile" she wants.

There is the post an image of yourself thread in the fun stuff forum.

[Ivanstone]

Although I am curious if Megan Fox smelled like raw sewage, how many might still consider it.

Problem with dating Megan Fox there might come a point where you'd have to be honest about her acting ability. Just a hypothetical.

[Torrasque]

Hot:
1. Archetype: Independent Strong-minded Career Woman. I make good money, but I want a woman that can as well.
2. Intellect: Smart with a decent (or greater) amount of common sense. I want to be able to talk and have a good conversation and stupidity and/or ignorance is a turnoff.
3. Health: Both physical and mental. A good appearance is fine, but being overall healthy is much more important. I don't want perfection, but I want someone that is in control of their own body and has a healthy outlook on themselves and life as a whole.
4. Happiness: Wants to live life for themselves and whomever wants to tag along, much like myself. Low personal responsibilities, high spending quality lifestyle.
5. Fun: Has some mutual hobbies. Fantasy/SciFi background. Loves gaming and gaming conventions. Is artistic and creative, or at the very least loves gaming culture fashion.

Not:
1. Uselessness. No goals in life, no job-centric lifestyle.
2. Stupidity/Brash Ignorance: Simply not being educated to a level of reasonable deductive understanding. It is difficult for me to love or even get along with someone that I realize is simply inferior every time they speak.
3. Unhealthy: Simply bad hygiene, far below average. Doesn't present them-self with any sense of effort. Simply having no style or desire to be stylish.
4. Unhappy. Being bitter, a downer, meek, or simply a mood leech. Being occasionally depressed is understandable, but always being negative, in any way, is a turn off.
5. Boring/Bland: Having no hobbies and no interests in life. Or simply mimicking my own to get me to like them, even when it is obvious that there is no real desire in such hobbies.

[Doctor Amadeus]

Problem with dating Megan Fox there might come a point where you'd have to be honest about her acting ability. Just a hypothetical.

Doesn't seem to be an issue for her now, haha!

[l33t]

White or asian woman with sense of humour, who is relatively fit and likes me. No need to write essays about hygiene, because that's usual routine for us normal humans.


Anyone who is not white or asian woman. Also, any of SJWs, feminists, vegans, progressives, #blm'ers, etc.

[Zindai]

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Foreign
Intelligent - high education is not necessary
Good with kids
Wild hairgrowth
High libido

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Smoking
Danish - I'm Danish too, I don't hate them, it just doesn't do it for me for some reason
Gym rat
Bad with money
Being a dick to strangers

[Theinquisition]

Turn ons...

1. Latina
2. Big BOOTY
3. Good sense of humor
4. Strong willed
5. Hard working.

Turn off.

1. Gingers
2. Dependant on others financially
3. No booty
4. Mean spirited
5. Irresponsible

[Gaidax]

Turn ons:

1. Nice assets. No need for pornstar fake shit, but a stick is of no interest to me.
2. Snazzy face.
3. Long strong hair.
4. Intelligence.
5. Faked weakness - instantly triggers my knight in shining armor syndrome, which in turn is ego booster. Usually comes with Intelligence, thus faked.

Turn offs:

1. Smoking - just no.
2. Moody crybaby - "the ice cream you brought is not the taste I wanted, I'm going to eat your head and sit huff and puff and teary half the movie". I had one like that, I was literally "wtf" and we had serious talk afterwards.
3. Unreliable - when you just know nothing will be done right when action is needed.
4. Too mean and sharp-tongued. A bit of spice is actually good, but too much and it ruins the dish.
5. Exaggerated makeup/piercings/nails/tattoos. Small amount is fine, but some clearly have no taste for shit and end up looking like a bloody Christmas tree.

[Theinquisition]

Turn Ons:
1. Long hair
2. Feminine
3. Can look good and is knowledgeable about the world
4. Loyal
5. Good-sized libido, because Papi needs it every day :P

Bonus points if she can pull off a sexy goth look, that's sort of my hidden weak spot.

Turn-offs:
1. Too much cussing
2. Always dressed in sweats/pajamas, especially when going out
3. Shallow and ignorant
4. Manipulative
5. Overly-jealous

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Do dark brown hair and green eyes count as light or dark? :P

Also, #5, do you mean they like kids enough that they don't mind if you already have kids going into the relationship?

Indeed, libido is important. Also, gotta have a freaky chick that likes it when I use a cock ring