I grew up in the
DDR. What was it like?
Although they leaned towards communist ideals they called their system "real socialism" (Realsozialismus). Who was "they". Well, they was "The Party" or the SED or socialist unity party. They were the de facto head of the state with its boss called Erich Honecker, who was general secretary of the committee for the party. They did have a parliamentary body called "Volkskammer" (People's Chamber), however its functionality was to say Yes to anything the party presented.
How was life? It was a system that fought against its own disintegration long before the peaceful revolution in 1989, plants and factories were in a ramshackle state, so was the infrastructure, our asphalted streets were plastered with craters hence why the DDR kept their bulging cobbled streets since they required now service and were excelled to stumble over in winter for the elderly. Winters were examplary, in the DDR everyone heated with lignite, most people couldn't afford central heating so every room had a lignite oven. Carbon monoxide poisoning when inside as well as respiratory problems from sulfuric and sooty clouds billowing out of chimneys everywhere were common side effects, as was acid rain when it finally got washed out. For school kids it was a nice time too because winter service was uncommon buses couldn't service villages and towns and so everyone had school-free days even for weeks going.
That said travelling and food was dirt cheap, even though there was constant shortage of foods leading to a oversupply of some other foods (like beets and cabbage, everyone's favourite vegetable) noone really had to suffer from malnutrition. Beer was not so good, due to shortage of certain grain types they "propped" beer with bile and sometimes with rice hence why it was coined "Sterbehilfe" (assisted suicide). Higher goods and tech was fairly in shortage and expensive hence why people were ready to repair stuff themselves and help eachother, people were in general more inclined to help eachother and be more social. Greeting eachother, evens strangers was common, it's some of the things that died out fast after reunification.
Cars especially were expensive, the DDR only knew two major brands, Trabant and Wartburg, for these they had to wait for years or buy them horrifically overpriced on the black market or even used. You could buy cars from Soviet or socialist countries, their....reputation was not spectacular. We had more names for these than they had models. In general people did have a social life but it was a lot more about gatherings. These are just a few examples, could fill a book and still not be done. There were a lot aspects of life that can hardly be covered in a few paragraphs.
Do I miss it, though? No, not really. I wished however that the reunification didn't have such huge impact on social life as it had. People were told their economy was inferior, so were their lives, people were happily buying into this. It's biting them back today and it still has political impact.