Originally Posted by
Anduin Menethil
Been doing direct game for about 3 weeks now and it's really refreshing, when before you've mostly started conversations by asking for directions. Going direct really filters out some of the girls that wouldn't be interested anyway, but it does take a lot of guts, especially when you're in crowded places. Most girls do react positively and at the very least say thank you.
One bad experience I had recently was when I opened a girl that I didn't get too good of a look at. When I told her she looked nice she immediately replied with "uh, oh, you too...". Then I saw that she didn't. Too old, wrinkled skin, no nice features, fucked up teeth. I immediately felt bad as I was looking for ways to end the conversation. I didn't even ask her anything after the compliment and she still told me half her life. At one point she paused and said "uhm, let's see, what else can I say about myself...". I took over the conversation and she answered everything I said with uuh's and aah's and hmm's and nods. I couldn't speak 2 words without her vehemently agreeing with what I said and signaling her understanding. I tried to end the conversation and she immediately pulled out her phone, suggesting we could exchange numbers. Then she asked "or do you have a girlfriend?"... and like an idiot I said "would that be a problem for you?". My standard response. I should've just said "yeah, she wouldn't like me to exchange numbers with some girl, sorry"... So then I had to take her number. Thank god I at least remembered to take her number, not give her mine, or I would have to deal with a weird stalker now. I immediately deleted her number. I thought about telling her that I had second thoughts because of my girlfriend, but then I remembered that then she would have my number, so I thought better of it.
Yesterday I ran into another girl, that looked really cute, but when she opened her mouth, and I saw her fucked up teeth, I wanted to run. Thank god her female friend rejoined her shortly after, so I could eject under the pretense of not wanting to disturb their time together.
Other than that, I mostly had good experiences. I can only recommend this way of approaching girls.
Hell, I've had several girls tell me "thank you, that made my day, I needed that right now", before they left smiling. I don't see anything wrong about this.