Things that would make you end a date immediately?

[Tiwack]

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Only Siths deal in absolutes. Tolerance is not that hard and nobody is perfect. Ending a relationship because you can't express yourself and make a compromise means you're not ready or mature enough to have one in the first place. We're all inherently flawed and real love is accepting them all for better or worse.

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Turn-offs:

Smoking
Drugs
Heavy drinking
Stupidity
Overly religious
Superstitious
SJW
Mental instability
Tattoos
Piercings
Full of herself
Uncivilized
Ignorant
Thinks music means rap or metal
Can't behave

Aggressiveness: depends on the chemistry between us.

[RobertoCarlos]

Turn-offs:

Smoking
Drugs
Heavy drinking
Stupidity
Overly religious
Superstitious
SJW
Mental instability
Tattoos
Piercings
Full of herself
Uncivilized
Ignorant
Thinks music means rap or metal
Can't behave

Aggressiveness: depends on the chemistry between us.

People with check lists like this that they are ticking off after every date are doomed to live alone. People have flaws. Get over it. You realise relationships are give and take it isn't just about what you want

[Sidewinder]

Kids. Single parents should gas themselves out of the dating scene.

Read somewhere that in a few years, if u aren't married by like 35, you will most likely end up a step-parent to someone's kid. The younger generations attitude to casual sex is basically your generations wet fantasy. Them kids are like rabbits nowadays.

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People with check lists like this that they are ticking off after every date are doomed to live alone. People have flaws. Get over it. You realise relationships are give and take it isn't just about what you want

Depends on what you are looking for. Some are just looking for temporary sex or other benefits, whatever they will be. Others are more serious about it and want to start a family. And certain kind of flaws are unacceptable in a serious relationship. Shouldn't have children with someone who would obviously be a bad example for them without any redeeming qualities. Also, many flaws tend to be connected - meaning that if a person has a certain flaw, he/she is likely to have a bunch of others as well.

[RobertoCarlos]

Depends on what you are looking for. Some are just looking for temporary sex or other benefits, whatever they will be. Others are more serious about it and want to start a family. And certain kind of flaws are unacceptable in a serious relationship. Shouldn't have children with someone who would obviously be a bad example for them without any redeeming qualities. Also, many flaws tend to be connected - meaning that if a person has a certain flaw, he/she is likely to have a bunch of others as well.

eh, sounds like a pretty unhappy life to me just waiting for mr perfect to come along personally.

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Kids. Single parents should gas themselves out of the dating scene.

Depends a bit on the reason why they are single. Is the other parent dead? Fine, that's acceptable.

You've had reckless sex with every jerk you've met, got pregnant, all the jerks are avoiding responsibility, and now you are just seeking to use a Mr. Nice Guy to pay the bills? Fuck off. Not going to clean the mess of someone who's still alive to do it, unless the child him/herself is somehow exceptionally adorable, gifted and full of promise.

[Cerilis]

This thread really shows the best of MMO-chan!

OT: Being the "best" of MMO-chan.

[Putin-Chan]

If she wants an open relationship or is in a relationship with someone else.

Has kids.

Starts getting ambitious (talking abt marriage/kids)

She thinks people who play games are manchildren (ofc, I wouldn't bring up the topic of gaming).

If she's a militant vegan/feminist. I don't to be scolded for eating meat/being male.

Bitter personality.

Victim complex (woe is me), or stuck up.

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eh, sounds like a pretty unhappy life to me just waiting for mr perfect to come along personally.

I'm not talking abut the "perfect mate". Just about someone who isn't insane (in a bad way), criminal, jerk, or dumb af.

[Mad_Murdock]

People with check lists like this that they are ticking off after every date are doomed to live alone. People have flaws. Get over it. You realise relationships are give and take it isn't just about what you want

I disagree. I had a checklist and didn't have an issue getting married. You say they are being too picky, I say they know what they want. And why should they settle? I get your general premise that we're all flawed and agree in principal. At the same time I actually believe a marriage partner needs to have a fairly high level of compatibility.

Plus in 5 years or so as he evolves and changes, I'm sure that list will evolve and change.

If she's a militant vegan/feminist. I don't to be scolded for eating meat/being male.

I always wondered how that would actually work. If they were hardcore man hating feminist, why would they even be on a date with a guy. If they are just a casual, "we all deserve equal rights\treatment" type feminist. I'm not sure where the problem would be at.

[Doctor Amadeus]

She voted trump or isn’t a feminist.

I’d dump it end the date so fast.

If she is an Alt Right Neo Nazi White Supremacist I’m not even giving her a tide back home or cab fare.

[Xenyatta]

people who online date cheat, its as simple as that. People who cant meet people and get to know them before setting up a date are pathetic and Im happy to admit i wish upon them a lifetime of loneliness and misery

HA I met my husband 14 years ago on the internet. Neither one of us have cheated or have a lifetime of misery. In fact we often get, "I wish my relationship was more like yours!"

Now before you interject, "How do you know he never cheated?" He works from home. I see him every day and he doesn't GO anywhere except maybe to the grocery store once in a while or over to his mother's house if she needs help with something.

My mother and her husband met online 14 years ago also and still happily married and not lonely or miserable. He's a damn choir boy and my mother openly tells me how much she hates sex so I don't foresee her getting a side guy anytime soon.

Think your statement isn't really solid there bro.

[Progenitor Aquarius]

out of curiosity, does that ever happen? ^^ (the boob line)

Oh hell yea it happened to me once.

[gaymer77]

if she smoked

3 i dont want some whore and i wouldnt ever ask one on a date on purpose so it would come as a surprise if a lady acted like one

id never go on a blind date or internet date because im not some loser so chances are id have noticed a lot of things about her beforehand as i would know her personality and what not so pretty much hows shes dressed and how her legs look

Send the chicks that smoke this way. Women that smoke are hot, I don't care what anyone thinks.

1. starts smoking.

Just the two - smoking and being overtly offensive.

For smoking - I'd end the date instantly if she persisted as I can't physically cope with the effects of it.

Smoker, religious, political conservative, racist, uneducated.

Just remember what Lois Griffon said, "If she smokes, she pokes"! Also @ZazuuPriest you sound like a prudish bore who doesn't even go 1 MPH over speed limit. Seriously, lighten up and have fun. Life is meant to have fun and be enjoyed not be constricted by so many rules.

On topic though, I can deal with a lot while on a date but that doesn't mean I'd call someone back every time. The only thing that would make me END a date immediately is being overtly rude to everyone around. I can't stand that shit.

1-10 I would like him to be maybe a 5 so that way if things clicked we might but at the same time I didn't feel pressured to do it.

Details in person are eyes. While meeting someone online/apps its political affiliation and stance on some social issues.

[Adam Jensen]

If "she" pulls out a penis.

What?

That's when the party starts getting interesting.

[gaymer77]

I'm not sure if it's just a problem in my area or for my orientation in general, but whenever it happens I politely tell them that I'm not interested in continuing the date/meet-up.

I think its a combination of area & orientation. There's a lot of guys in my area that are on the DL (downlow for those who don't know is when a guy is in "straight" relationship but hooks up with dudes on the side but doesn't claim to be bi or gay) or curious and just want hookups.

[breadisfunny]

Just remember what Lois Griffon said, "If she smokes, she pokes"! Also @ZazuuPriest you sound like a prudish bore who doesn't even go 1 MPH over speed limit. Seriously, lighten up and have fun. Life is meant to have fun and be enjoyed not be constricted by so many rules.

On topic though, I can deal with a lot while on a date but that doesn't mean I'd call someone back every time. The only thing that would make me END a date immediately is being overtly rude to everyone around. I can't stand that shit.

1-10 I would like him to be maybe a 5 so that way if things clicked we might but at the same time I didn't feel pressured to do it.

Details in person are eyes. While meeting someone online/apps its political affiliation and stance on some social issues.

i can't stand the smell of someone who smokes. its a complete sexual turn off.

[Z-Man]

OT: Depends on what you mean by "immediately," but I once went on a date with a girl who was 19 when I was 27. We were both in college, but I was in a master's program and she was (obviously) undergrad. We were polite to each other and kept the whole date, but as soon as I found out her age I knew I wouldn't be calling her again. Why can I never correctly estimate the age of Asian girls?? Whoops!

If a 19-year old was willing to go on a date with me, I would have proposed.

[breadisfunny]

People with check lists like this that they are ticking off after every date are doomed to live alone. People have flaws. Get over it. You realise relationships are give and take it isn't just about what you want

must of that is on my list too. i don't want a perfect chick i just want someone decent. taking non prescribed drugs isn't a character flaw it's a felony. some people have standards.