It's precisely what it is, when you get called cheap otherwise. That's what it means, that a man has to spend on a woman to be worth of her time. Adhering to this notion makes you a Beta Bucks with no self respect.
Countless other dudes have fucked that girl for free, while you pay for a chance at it. It's pathetic. Are you inferior to those dudes? Do you need to pay to even have a chance at being at their level?
Grow a spine.
Oh and paying for a woman as if they aren't full citizens with the right to work is objectifying.
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No, they don't.
If Bob has 2 apples and 3 pears and Mary has 3 apples and 2 pears, she wants 3 pears, but she'll say nothing of the apples. That's what feminism has ALWAYS been.