Oh, your assumptions are just making my day. I haven't laughed this hard in ages. Let me guess - you're between 15 and 23?
Assuming you know virtually anything about my dating life is a treat. But, let me be the one to inform you, it is entirely possible to date without getting laid and have fun. It's also entirely possible to get laid without worrying about who is paying for what or who is the alpha. Lastly, and this is a big one - it's entirely possible to date for a while before you jump in to bed with someone and enjoy all of the dates.