Ole Miss 'Sugar Baby' speaks: Choosing Sugar Daddies over student debt

[Player Twelve]

I want him to be happy. He says he needs someone to talk to so who better than a loving, caring wife.

Right @Mistame

There's really no reason to get married. If you want to live together then just cohabitate, less legal hurdles if something goes south.

[jackofwind]

The whole sugar daddy and sugar baby thing disturbs me. If you're so sad that you have to resort to paying for sex you've fundamentally failed at life. Likewise if you're having sex for money.

Explain how being able to exert your power over others , financial or otherwise, enough to convince them to have sex with you no matter how unattractive or old you are. It's not the life for me, but it's certainly fulfilling the biological imperative.

[Kapadons]

College tuition is so fucking high because of the wildly exaggerated demand made possible by the boundless lending available. Not to mention the fallacious cultural norm that has formed around everybody needing to go to get a four year degree in the first place; now a four year degree is the functional equivalent in the job market of what a high school diploma was about 50 years ago. It also probably indicates roughly the same level of actual academic growth as a high school diploma 50 years ago.

What we really need to do is make four year college "free" (i.e. make other people pay for it besides the student), so that in 20 years a bachelor's degree is TOTALLY worthless and you'll need a graduate degree to be hired for entry level work. Right?

There is a space that operates between hundred of thousands of dollars in debt and “free”.

[shadowmouse]

I suppose that means the typo in your sig is intentional as well?

No typo, Google it. That's a quote.

[Tennis]

The whole sugar daddy and sugar baby thing disturbs me. If you're so sad that you have to resort to paying for sex you've fundamentally failed at life. Likewise if you're having sex for money.

So if your man was broke you'd still be with him?

[Player Twelve]

So if your man was broke you'd still be with him?

No, because that means he's given up on even trying to live. How does this relate to paying for sex or selling sex?

[bash the fash]

I respect anyone who puts in hard work for the hustle. That's all life is. A body's an asset to be used the same as a writer's brain or some athlete's muscles. All that matters is that you're happy at the end of the day, and that you haven't left anyone dying or suffering to achieve that.

That said, it's fucked not to keep her partner informed about her work. Sex work is work, but it's also sex - even when it's not. (lust, attachment, and emotional devotion are cheating just as much as the physical act, if partners aren't informed or comfortable with the situation). She knew she should have, too, otherwise she wouldn't have kept it a secret. Shitty thing to do.

[luckydevours]

She is nothing more than a high dollar prostitute.

Just a ho by another name.

No respectable guy is gonna date that hoe after they find out about it.

She really limited her options by doing this and is probably gonna be stuck with some guy like this in empty relationships until she can't do it anymore.

That's the flip side. Kinda sad really.

I mean, she's a whore. Call a spade a spade. Only fucking one guy at a time for money as opposed to many different partners doesn't mean you're not a whore. No need to give it a different name. That fact that she's hiding it from actual boyfriends, or potential boyfriends, means she knows what she's doing is "wrong."

She's a disgusting human being, and not strictly because she's having sex for money. I'm not against prostitution or anything, but this should be regulated just as much as hookers in Vegas.

Holy shit, the mental gymnastics she does is unbelievable.

You can do whatever you want with your body, but saying "this is not prostitution", "they don't pay for the sex" and "I prefer older men" (while dating a guy her own age) is just denying the reality.

It seems to me that she thinks she is doing something wrong, since she tries to justify it in so many ways.

You're a prostitute, not a sugar baby.

Your sugar daddy is a john.

So......... She's a whore.

if it walks like a hoe and queefs like a hoe....

Sure, some places have legalized prostitution. And I'm sure they prefer to be called "escorts."
But it's still whoring.
Toss away any false sense of self-respect and call it what it is.

Where does all this hatred and contempt come from? How does her lifestyle in any way or form detract from yours? Why do you feel the need to call her a "dirty whore"? Does it make you feel morally superior? Or are you just angry and jealous that life has given her opportunities you don't have?

[Jonnusthegreat]

Where does all this hatred and contempt come from? How does her lifestyle in any way or form detract from yours? Why do you feel the need to call her a "dirty whore"? Does it make you feel morally superior? Or are you just angry and jealous that life has given her opportunities you don't have?

Man wtf I complimented her wtf, stop trying to post count.

[bash the fash]

Where does all this hatred and contempt come from? How does her lifestyle in any way or form detract from yours? Why do you feel the need to call her a "dirty whore"? Does it make you feel morally superior? Or are you just angry and jealous that life has given her opportunities you don't have?

Most dudes are always going to be pissy when it comes to sex work because the sex market has little room for pimply, out-of-shape gremlins to ply the trade.

[Shadowferal]

*shrugs*
I'm sure her mother would be proud...assuming she ever finds out.

[Tennis]

No, because that means he's given up on even trying to live. How does this relate to paying for sex or selling sex?

If you expect your man to be wealthy doesn't that mean you are expecting money for sex.

[Minikin]

how many people have you proposed to this week?

thanks for that. now i have to clean up all this water i spilled while laughing my ass off.


edit: nvm lol

[luckydevours]

Man wtf I complimented her wtf, stop trying to post count.

Sorry, i thought your post was sarcasm. I still don't see how feminism has anything to do with this issue.

[shadowmouse]

If you expect your man to be wealthy doesn't that mean you are expecting money for sex.

I'm going to go out on a limb here and say it's a Skyrim moment. You know the one, you pick up your first follower at the traders' by passing a fake letter that makes the woman get angry and drop the bard because she isn't going to take care of him and be his mommy.

So, Valentine's Day, you'll be paying for sex when you present gifts, right?

[Player Twelve]

If you expect your man to be wealthy

I never said anything about expecting him to be wealthy. I said I don't want to be with someone who is broke because that means they've given up on life. Even now when I'm not working I get almost $1500 per month because of unemployment benefits and my own investments.

Even if he lost his job he would still have an income and wouldn't be broke. He'd only become broke if he refused to look for a new job because that would make him ineligible for unemployment benefits, which I would interpret as him giving up on life. Lack of desire to even provide for yourself is a major turnoff.

doesn't that mean you are expecting money for sex.

Lolwat?

[Evil Midnight Bomber]

Why don't you get married instead so you have a soulmate to confide in.

Soulmate can't pay my bills.
Can't pay my telephone bills.
Can't pay my automo-bills.
If they did then maybe we could chill

[Bathory]

I think it's pretty fucked up that she never told her current bf, but if they were in an open relationship then that's fine. I dunno why people are still getting butthurt over this sugar daddy thing. I feel like we get this post every month.

[Blamblam41]

Queue in the male apologists pretending that women selling their body is anything different than a male selling their body through physical labor.

Though her unfaithfulness to her boyfriend is sad, fundamentally mutual monogamous relationships are a set up for failure in any case. What I'd like to see is for college to stop being so fundamentally expensive students have to become prostitutes even after having a job. That's a little on the nose considering the Great Depression only happened 100 years ago.

[Tennis]

Queue in the male apologists pretending that women selling their body is anything different than a male selling their body through physical labor.

Though her unfaithfulness to her boyfriend is sad, fundamentally mutual monogamous relationships are a set up for failure in any case. What I'd like to see is for college to stop being so fundamentally expensive students have to become prostitutes even after having a job. That's a little on the nose considering the Great Depression only happened 100 years ago.

It's very different. Love and intimacy is not the as mixing cement. How can you not see that.