Here's the thing. People that use firearms, and know their capabilities attempt to explain their position, and articulate the nuances therein because they have that knowledge.
Anti-gunners say we are condecending, and to a point, we are because we have more knowledge of the subject. More than that, though, we're attempting to educate those that don't have the knowledge. Rather than accepting the knowledge, we'll get told we're wrong.
That doesn't make us wrong.