Originally Posted by
Cyranis
If you are all playing together and having a good time. Why should loot matter? Simple, because you've put progress in a video game ahead of having fun with your friends. You go on to say that if you have to choose. You'd choose loot and progress, period.
Why is this going to cause friction? Is it perhaps because in the end .. after you wipe away all the bs. It's all about the loot. You can try and paint it any color you like, but you just boiled it down for us.
Somewhere under the varnish of doing it out of the goodness of your heart, there is an underlying loot issue. And it would go to figure on the opposite side that the people you are carrying, under all the bs, resent you in some way for being used.
Sure sure, it might not be terribly prevalent in your guild, not near the surface at all. But there are a very large number of guilds out there.
You are straight up using them to your own ends. That is the simple truth, even if they are happy about it.