Tanking in BfA is tiring.
Every healer/dps has different expectation for the tank. "tank mid" "tank here" "Do this" "skip that"
If you do even ONE thing wrong in their eyes? you get insulted.
I'm nice, i dont say shit when people fail constantly on the first boss of Temple because they can't see lightning shields, but when i tank the second boss in the middle, like i have been doing all along and going through fine, suddenly "learn to tank" "idiot"
It doesn't pay to be a nice person in this game, honestly it doesn't. I'm just gonna be a jerk from now and call people out constantly. If i get kicked i don't care, i get groups super easily.