meh. give it to them, worst thing that happens is the parents say "nope".
O Flora, of the moon, of the dream. O Little ones, O fleeting will of the ancients. Let the hunter be safe. Let them find comfort. And let this dream, their captor, Foretell a pleasant awakening
... I literally had a chest of teddies, horsies, and beanie babies by the time I was 5. grandma gave me most of them before I could even remember. But as has been established on these forums, I was raised right as opposed to being coddled and treated like some porcelain doll that'll break if you so much as look at it too hard.
O Flora, of the moon, of the dream. O Little ones, O fleeting will of the ancients. Let the hunter be safe. Let them find comfort. And let this dream, their captor, Foretell a pleasant awakening
I get your POV, it sounds stupid. That being said, the leading cause of infants in the US is still accidental death (although most of those are due to auto vehicle accidents), and there's a reason why parents are more cautious about toys nowadays...perhaps we learned from the past? Only takes one kid to die from choking on a button-eye...in any case, babies don't have reasoning skills, not sure how much "not being coddled" has to do with babies choking on their toys.
I would personally go to the store and buy a baby safe toy and give her baby that and the horse. Tell her mother one is for now and one is for later but you thought the horse was cute so you had a to buy it.
People go crazy with safety shit now. Back in the days, we would play with sharp rocks and eat sand and birb poop. Your plush is perfect and she'll love it and we will not see a picture of her on the newpaper saying BABY DEAD AFTER CHOKING ON HORSE.
It's a kid, and it's an adorable toy.
Just give it to the kiddo, and worst case, if the parents feel it's not appropriate, they'll keep it away from their kiddo, until the kid is old enough to play with it.
About half the presents my son gets are quietly shuffled onto a closet shelf, until he's actually old enough to play with them (e.g. the drone someone gave him when he was 4.....)
Don't sweat it.
Source: Am a dad.
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My parents would put diet soda in our sippy cups. That stuff is like 80% poison.
Have a friend who was given "a sip of beer" by his parents at his 1st birthday. Would have been fine but 8 other guests decided it would be funny to do that too, so he ended up drunk on his 1st birthday.
I think you just had good parents. Some of us didn't.
Give it to the parents and let them keep it in bed with them for a while. It will accumilate their smell and will soothe the baby when she holds it.
Looks like any other stuffed animal that my kids had since they were newborn's.
I have it on good authority that infants like to try and eat things. It might catch a hairball if it starts chewing on the fur.
Just store it somewhere safe and give it to them in a few years.
Keep it for a later B-Day celebration. To be fair newborns are a pain in the ass to buy for. You can still give them the horse, they just might have to keep it on a shelf in the babies room or something.
So much cursing lol, like I do a lot but damn
S-S-S-SORRY FOR MAKING A JOKE. Good lord please have mercy on my soul.
But to be completely serious, newborns don't even have to motor skills to grab the plush and eat it. They hurt themselves with their own nails. There's no danger in giving any child of any age that plush.