Women, what attracts you sexually about men?

[bloodrunner]

Who knows. I don't know why all women aren't lesbians.

They are, but they also want to have babies, which requires a reagent to cast.

[Hilhen7]

They are, but they also want to have babies, which requires a reagent to cast.

They sell that reagent at the sperm bank.

[Incarnia]

Humor, intelligence, self confidence (don't confuse that with cocky morons playing "alpha male") and living a simple lifestyle close to nature. Appearance are tricky, because you can be as handsome as a model but if you don't got charisma and those other qualities I mentioned? You tend to fall flat in my eyes. I can acknowledge the person is good looking alright, but that's about it. That alone wouldn't get me interested.

[hynx]

I was thinking as a guy, when I look at a woman, she could be overweight but have a pretty face, she could be not very pretty but have a killer bubble butt, she could be almost unattractive but have an amazing personality that turns you on mentally and in consequence, physically.

But then I look at men...we look fucking ridiculous unless we're actually fit physically. When we have pot bellies we look ridiculous, when we're skinny we look cartoonish, when we're naked unless we have a cut body we look downright comical.
During dates we're either very smooth or very generic or very funny or downright retarded sounding as we try to pitch every pitch we can to get some.

I dunno, I don't have any hate towards my own sex, but what the hell attracts you about us? I can see how us being confident makes sense, but I feel like that's more of a hardwired thing from the monkey age.

you clearly havent heard that the "dad bod" is an actual thing. get over your self image issues or get to the gym. not every girl wants to be with a super cut in shape guy, who is going to spend more time at the gym, and doing meal preps for themselves, over a guy with some chub, who can give actual quality time, bring home her favorite pizza, binge watch something on hulu, amazon prime, netflix, crunchy roll, whatever and maybe throw in a foot massage every once in a while.

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They are, but they also want to have babies, which requires a reagent to cast.

the CRISPR patch may soon eliminate the need for reagents, to cast "summon infant" not much can be done about the 9 month channel casting though, at least for now. but be careful, as with most other fertility buffs, "summon infant" might bug out, and you could end up with 2 or 3, rapidly draining your resources, faster than anticipated.

[Spl4sh3r]

Face > Penis > Body/Hair, prioritized in that order.

I am the type of person that goes after cute instead of handsome. Basically the face should be cute, so in some way should have a youthful look, since cuteness tends to be from being young but not too young for obvious reasons. Since the penis is part of sex, then it should be something that should look at least okay Then body/hair is sort of secondary since it is basically to not have too much of it, but it can always be shaved or trimmed if it is (and they agree to it ) as for the body I don't mind if there is fat, just not too much of it or the person is thin, just not too thin. But the min/max is pretty wide so many will fit inbetween. Though too much muscle is a no go as well.

[Dziubla]

Who knows. I don't know why all women aren't lesbians.

I often ask the same question towards men. Not necessarily why they aren't gay, since that I can answer well enough myself, but why do they bother with women. Especially nowadays. If we weren't biologically, and socially conditioned to worship them, and actually looked at them through realistic lens...There's nothing in it for men apart from sex.

As for you question - There's a lot of research showing how divorce/breakup rates amongst lesbians are the highest, followed by hetero couples, followed by gay couples. While men are very often boring and/or "unattractive", true enough, they are at least usually relatively "easy" to get along with, since most of them just crave peace and quiet. Most of the arguments and drama in relationships come from women. When you have two women in a relationship...that's twice the amount of drama. Easy to see how such relationships fall apart.

Anecdote time - This thread reminded me of a woman we had in our guild back in Wotlk. She used to change jobs a lot, worked in highly female-dominated areas. She used to say to us how there's nothing worse than working with nothing but women, day in, day out. The amount of drama, laziness, backstabbing, gossiping and general toxicity was unbielievable in her stories. And that's just in workplace. Now imagine a relationship between two women.

[ldev]

What my wife loves about me as a man the way she puts it:

Ass - it's so firm and of lovely shape.

Penis - adorable and fun to waggle around (I'm also not mutilated there, so it's fun to stroke it while not erect revealing/hiding the head)

Hairy chest - likes to brush my hair chest

Beard - likes to run fingers through it

Voice - it's deep and serious

Look - rough and scary (I don't know...)

Upper back with shoulders - wide, very fun to sit on.

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So, basically, at least my wife, when she looks at a man, she loves a shit ton of body parts, just like we men do with face, lips, thighs, ass, breasts, etc. What a surprise. And I'm just an average dude, but as I quote what she said I make myself to be the manliest manly man alive, but you should understand that's because these descriptions were said with love.

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Mentally - she likes that she can act as a child and cry and complain, let alone PMS stuff, and I'm there like strong serious... father.

[Sting]

I'm surprised nobody mentioned Asmongold yet, considering what he's been up to last days.

What'd he do?

[Izalla]

When he brings me the still beating heart of a recently sacrificed virgin.

[Aggrophobic]

Incoming: Ugly men who claim the only thing women find attractive about men are their bank accounts.

I was a broke student when I met my wife. How the heck did I do that? I don't really remember.

[Nasuuna]

Caught between a clear direction, and no direction...How...average of you.


*As a disclaimer, i'm just being silly. Just in case anyone feels insulted or anything.*

Tell my wife I said...Hello

[Rudkobing]

I was thinking as a guy, when

I don't have any hate towards my own sex, but what t

OP, you have hate towards yourself and your own sex.

[Cizr]

I'm here to prove you wrong by stating it as a handsome man.

You sure you are a man? You have been lying about being woman before along with about dozen of other lies regarding your life. You are not making up stuff just for attention,right?

[Cizr]

, she could be almost unattractive but have an amazing personality that turns you on mentally and in consequence, physically.

Some women also feel this way

[Tulune]

A sense of humor, a cute face, and a kind disposition.

[Levaustian]

If you truly understood on a visceral level the attraction men held, you would be attracted to them.
Since you are not wired to be, you can't understand that attraction.
Checkmate XD

[Independent voter]

Face > Penis > Body/Hair, prioritized in that order.

I am the type of person that goes after cute instead of handsome. Basically the face should be cute, so in some way should have a youthful look, since cuteness tends to be from being young but not too young for obvious reasons. Since the penis is part of sex, then it should be something that should look at least okay Then body/hair is sort of secondary since it is basically to not have too much of it, but it can always be shaved or trimmed if it is (and they agree to it ) as for the body I don't mind if there is fat, just not too much of it or the person is thin, just not too thin. But the min/max is pretty wide so many will fit inbetween. Though too much muscle is a no go as well.

Would it be enough if I drew a smiley face on it with a sharpie?

I'm asking for a friend.

[lollermittens]

A lot of guys mention height. I don't think it's as important as you think.

I'm only 5'7 but I've hooked up with quite... a few (to say the least) women throughout my life.

I also happen to be financially very comfortable but using my wealth to attract women has truly only attracted the worst ones. Sure, if you have money you can definitely get into a relationship but that person will not care for who you are and that will be a toxic relationship.

Best relationship I ever had? When I met my ex in college and she was patient enough to wait months for me to get my guard down and show her my real self.

Unfortunately, I'm single now and I don't see an end to it. I'm working too much and have too many things to manage.

My worst flaw? I'm not good when it comes to feelings. I tend to minimize or disregard my own feelings since I feel they get in the way of operating efficiently and rationally in turn making it difficult for me to care about how others feel. This behavior has made me successful in my work life but it has made my relationships (beyond one-night stands and Tinder/ Bumble casual hooks up) a disaster to say the least. Turns out most women want a partner who can support them emotionally and I'm just not that kinda guy.

Oh well. So many more interesting things in life than relationships.

[Cephilia]

The number 1. requirement for me to be attracted to a man is for him to realize that women are people. We are not some mysterious, unanimous group that has the same preferences, hopes, dreams etc. Just people. Nothing more, nothing less. That being said, being somewhat socially adept, taking care of personal hygiene and having some goals in life are quite universal. Things like body shape, personality, looks etc are things everyone has a different preference for. I like tall, hairy, masculine men (I always describe my taste as "vikings"), while many of my co-workers like somewhat metro-sexual, average height men much more attractive, and cute, short guys seem to be the type for many of my friends. Not all guys like skinny blondes with huge tits, and not all women like metro-sexual, tall, muscular, rich playboys.

Edit: spelling

[Dsonsion]

I'm a mostly heterosexual man, but what makes another man attractive to me is:
1. Posture (People who slouch just lost it all)
2. Cleanliness (I inherited an insanely powerful nose, and that's a curse)
3. Kindheartedness (Accommodating people are much better acquaintances than those tryhards obsessed with displaying their alpha maleness)