Girlfriend made out with another girl while I wasn't with her

[THE Bigzoman]

She probably thought you would think it was hot/cool that she made out with another girl while drunk, that's why she told you about it. You going over there all butthurt about it is going to make you look socially awkward.

This would make a lot more sense if he were actually present to see it.

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Break it off OP. Might be missing some info, but it sounds like she did this on impulse.

[sarahtasher]

Not sure what to think of it now, they were already friends. I don't know the full story, but from what I gather they meet for a drink out, went back to her place where said friend invited some dude around.

I get a message saying she was heading home when said dude arrived but then 1 hour later another message saying she made out with this girl and she is heading home.

No idea what to think of if I even trust her now. Thoughts?

My thought is that I'm not sure which place is the least suited to have a discussion on personal relationship between

A)A traditional tribal meeting in Afghanistan, when you do not speak pashtun
B)A MMO board.

On one hand, one place will have the locales massacre you if you say the wrong thing. The other place have at least, from what I gather, pretty awesome mutton and rice dishes.

[KOUNTERPARTS]

Cheating is cheating

dont let your testosterone or sexual fantasies get in the way: look at the action itself

[Queen of Hamsters]

You didn't read the OP's post right. It was a 3some between his gf, the chick and a random dude that the chick invited over. He got absolutely cucked and he still hasn't broken up with her so she will probably string him a long a bit more if he provides the stability.

Ah, well then I quite frankly doubt the sincerety of the OP to begin with.

Who in their right mind would stay with a partner that admitted to cheating on them...? Seems like these tall tales are reused quite a lot as of late too.

[korijenkins]

This would make a lot more sense if he were actually present to see it.

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Break it off OP. Might be missing some info, but it sounds like she did this on impulse.

That or more happened than she said. (Which is the most likely event imo)

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Ah, well then I quite frankly doubt the sincerety of the OP to begin with.

Who in their right mind would stay with a partner that admitted to cheating on them...? Seems like these tall tales are reused quite a lot as of late too.

OP is trying to rationalize that nothing happened aside from exactly what his GF said happened.

[Dellis0991]

Either your girl is down low/bi or she fucking around with dudes and chicks behind your back....both ain't good.

[lonely zergling]

Break up and get tested man. Who knows with how many dudes / girls / animals she has done it with while you were together. Yikes.

[hawkeyeTA]

The girl was trying to initiate a threesome with your gf and the dude. I bet when the dude showed up she got uncomfortable and left. But was comfortable making out with the girl.

[Steelcryo]

I’m guessing you make your living from writing ham country and western songs

hahaha apparently so. Didn't even notice that

[sarahtasher]

Excuse me, I struggle mentally with the concept.

The OP asks for sympathy in a extramarital affair….
...from perfect strangers...
...on a MMO board…

[Self Inflicted Wounds]

Too much weirdness to this story. Did she have a threesome, or just kiss the girl, or just the dude? I dunno, strange behavior.

Just dump your girlfriend.

[Doctor Amadeus]

So she cheated on you, yeah sorry to hear that unless you are into that sort of thing.

[Machismo]

Make out with the same chick, and see what happens.

[Waltar]

personal preference my wife has my permission to fuck around with other women, no dicks so w/e gotten a few double bjs out of it so i cant complain only live once brah

[smegmage]

Sounds like your girl was picked as the 3rd wheel to a threesome, then other girl was putting in some work. A lot more happens in an hour than some kissing, I'd be moving on.

[Karlz0rz]

She probably thought you would think it was hot/cool that she made out with another girl while drunk, that's why she told you about it. You going over there all butthurt about it is going to make you look socially awkward.

Socially awkward for having a talk about your partner cheating on you?
What kind of relationships are you in? It's to the point where I almost feel sorry for you if this is your view on this topic.

[Fojos]

She probably thought you would think it was hot/cool that she made out with another girl while drunk, that's why she told you about it. You going over there all butthurt about it is going to make you look socially awkward.

Oh look. The feminist thinking like an unfaithful ass, how surprising.

[Seramore]

Question for the posters in this thread, specifically those of you saying "just break up with her bro," or "once the trust is gone, it's gone." Have any of you ever actually been in a relationship before or are over the age of 20?

[Fojos]

Question for the posters in this thread, specifically those of you saying "just break up with her bro," or "once the trust is gone, it's gone." Have any of you ever actually been in a relationship before or are over the age of 20?

I've been married for 7 years and would never accept her kissing someone else in any kind of sexual manner. How old are you?

[korijenkins]

Question for the posters in this thread, specifically those of you saying "just break up with her bro," or "once the trust is gone, it's gone." Have any of you ever actually been in a relationship before or are over the age of 20?

Apparently instances of cheating are acceptable over the age of 20