Only ever met two incels, while at university.
They weren't proud of not getting laid.
They were proud of their behavior that they thought was something to be praised and rewarded.
Being "gentlemen". But their chivalry was always super awkward and over the top.
Also met someone I would consider a female incel.
She was more confident, but couldn't comprehend why people didn't want to be with her when she'd state what she wanted from a guy.
She was probably leaning towards 400 lbs and used "homemade deodorant", but smelled of BO. (She wasn't at my university, but worked in the tech department for my current job. She is an immigrant from Brazil.)
At the end of the day. Most Incels could just buy a prostitute.
But I guess that is like admitting defeat in their mind.
Even though they equate good behavior to currency for sex.
When they could just use real currency for sex.