It's time to understand and remember this already, for I have repeated this tirade more than a few dozen times
It’s still so simple, no one bothers anyone, everyone has what they wants, and everyone accepts each other’s choices... but you definitely want to invade someone else’s space for some reason, it’s not enough that you spoil your character, you want the rest to be lowered to that level (note, that I don't propose to deprive you of choice, but only to make it equal and fair to anyone). And please don't start again with this nonsense about "this doesn't affect anyone." It's just vicious circle: you can't and shouldn't be responsible for others.