High amout of posts usually means someone have huge knowedgle and he share it with others. There is nothing bad in having knowedgle or be good at games.
Nice that you got girlfriend, familiy and hobby, i bet this information changed peoples life and world will become better now.
If anyone have problem what to do after hiting lvl 50 on neck he should consider to start playing this game. Ap farm is the lowest priority once you unlock def traits, there is no point in farming it. Once i have unlocked them i stopped doing emissaries because of bad rewards - low amout of gold even for paragon reputations and i dont rly need more ap.