I met my significant other a certain way and I expect just that. YES its time to move on
It doesn't make the slightest difference to me, my significant is fine any shape or size
The options on this poll are too limited. There's factors involved that need to be considered. We all start to fall apart as we get old so looks can't be the only reason you're with someone. I don't mind the general weight gain that can come with getting older/working a full-time job/having kids etc. If that's all it takes for you to be turned off you need to relax on your standards. If your SO has some kind of genetic disorder that makes weight loss REALLY tough, yeah I'd stay and make it work.
However, if your SO is just pounding away doughnuts without any regard for you or how it affects the relationship then yeah I'd start thinking about getting out. I don't understand how some of you can say "well this wasn't real love if they get fat and you leave". In such an extreme case (which I've seen happen) YOU'RE the victim. YOU'RE the one watching your SO just eat their way away from you. If marriage is death til you part that's pretty damn close. You're practically watching the person your SO was die and become something else.
Depends I guess, if I get married I'm in it till I die. If you want to divorce them you should've never got married in the first place. You had to know what kind of person you invested in your love in, so why abandon them if that happened? Should you try to help them get things under control and help them get back in shape?
not really thats a very narrowminded view of it. when people start getting older working all the time you have less and less time and you prioritize other things in front of working out. shit happens and you cant just give up on a person because they gain weight thats just stupid
no that is just a straight trash ass reason to divorce. if you truly love one another you would do all you can to help that person get healthy again. life sometimes gets in the way. with as much as i work i find i have no energy to go work out all the time as i get older. i just want to relax and rest because im always so tired from work. i still go but not as much as i used to. but if my wife gained weight i would just kick her to the curb im not an asshole. a marriage is a commitment and i dont mean in the religious sense. i mean that you're in it through thick and thin and will be there for each other.
I'm in my 30s and my wife and I have both worked big hours jobs as research scientists. Now, I travel a ton for work, regularly put in over 50 hours, and own a small business on the side. Fitness remains a priority for a variety of reasons:
- Health
- Competition
- Joy of mastery
- Physical appearance
You don't personally have to value it, although I think that's a pretty bad plan, but the person I'm married to certainly does need to. If my wife showed a lack of interest in remaining healthy and attractive, it would clearly indicate a disregard for me.
and youre lucky good for you. you know what happened to me after i quit smoking? i gained the most weight i ever have in the shortest time span ever in my life. in a few months i gained 50lbs and that has never happened to me before. In fact for years i stayed between a 10lb range and never left that. working now to get rid of it but does my wife just leave me because i gained weight? fuck no that would be stupid as fuck. we both motivate each other to go work out and eat healthier. you dont just leave a person over such a stupid matter. if so you never loved that person truly and you were just a superficial person to begin with
Also the question posed completely ignores reality. Your SO is not just gonna put on weight with the other noticing. So what did the other do before the breaking point hit? If it was a concern, the other would have noticed and inquired about their SO and if anything was going on. I would say if significant weight gain happened to ones SO and the other just let it happen the SO has grounds for divorce since it is obvious the other doesn't really care enough to notice or do anything about it.
I lost a good amount of weight when i stop smoking weed and drinking(I dabble little bit with weed just a like a blunt every few months ). I was always busy so I wasn't sloppy fat just chubby but when I went cold turkey its like all the rest of the bad habits kind of left (other then gaming), I eat healthier and eat less. I love myself now.
You don't even have to work out to lose weight. I dropped sugars, sodium, and processed foods from my diet and lost 30lbs changing nothing else.
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This whole thread reeks of selfishness and a unwillingness to care or understand what would lead to this weight gain.
FUCKING FACTS MAN! this thread is just filled with straight assholes it seems. like wtf is this way of thinking. why even get married if youre going to have this type of mindset? marriage is about going through things together good and bad. if you didnt want to deal with the bad times then just never get married. jeez humans sure do suck ass
Depends.
If the guy gains weight, then yes, it can be grounds for divorce, because gurl, you deserve better.
If the girl gains weight, then no, because HOW DARE YOU NOT LOVE HER FOR WHO SHE IS, YOU SEXIST PIG?
Welcome to double standards!
"That shit went down faster than a gold digger on a dying rich dude".
Like 60+.
I'm 31, play hockey twice a week, softball once a week, and workout at least 3 times a week with at least once big leg day. I'm also not at my leanest (I was a really skinny kid/teenager), but I'm definitely the fittest I've ever been. I certainly don't expect to have to throttle back at all until I'm into my mid-50's, barring injuries.
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Depends. On how retarded the poll is expecting them to stay exactly as you met them then I'd say no you're just being unrealistic. Almost everybody gains some weight as they age.
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