“The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply,” Stephen Covey.
And none of that has anything to do with profiting off of dead kids. If you or I asked for a Spider-Man Tombstone for ourselves...the response from Disney would be the same. It's strictly about the IP and the Disney Brand and the policy to not allow funeral markers of any kind. They've got no issue with the family using Spider-Man to memorialize their kid in other ways. They even offered to send the the family a personalized and hand painted Spider-Man cell.
“The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply,” Stephen Covey.
I've given you what the reason is...you just continue to ignore it. They don't want their characters to be associated with death. "We have striven to preserve the same innocence and magic around our characters that brought him such joy". It's a policy that goes all the way back to Walt Disney himself. It has literally nothing to do with kid deaths. As I said...if you or I made the same request for ourselves...they would still deny it.
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You don't know how often they have had to deny these requests. But it has been a standard policy for decades so it's obviously something that has happened before and you never heard about it.
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“The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply,” Stephen Covey.
“The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply,” Stephen Covey.
I see the whole of this as a non-issue. Especially in light of the fact that they did kinda play nice with the funeral and all.
If dad wanted Spiderman on the gravestone he should have just had it done quietly.
He can't do it quietly.
The local council has to approve the tombstone.
They couldn't approve the tombstone without authorization from Disney.
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I'm not ascribing hidden meaning. I'm ascribing the actual meaning. You said they didn't want to profit from Death....but that's not the reason they rejected the father's request.
“The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply,” Stephen Covey.
It's called Slash and burn agriculture
Funny, you were just accusing me of ascribing hidden meanings...yet that's exactly what you're doing.
I'm running out of ways to tell you that the reasoning is they don't want people to associate their IP's with death. It's not that they're afraid that selling Spider-Man themed Tombstones will make them look like they're trying to profit from death. They're worried that just the very image of Spider-Man on a Tombstone hurts the brand.
If you want to look at it from a purely financial perspective...they think that Spider-Man being associated with Death is actually going to hurt his marketability which will cost them money. It's not profiting from the dead that concerns them....it's the prospect of not profiting from the living.
“The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply,” Stephen Covey.
I very much doubt the local council has any reason to care about copy right laws. They are not the ones copying something, at best the stone mason would have to care or the person that ordered the stone. Unless graveyards are completely public property (like some kind of lawn owned next to a street) in the UK and they order someone to display something there, I simply see no reason why they could be touched here. I would at least assume that the plot with your grave on is at least partially rented out to the owner of the grave, that is at least how it is here in germany (and the graveyards themselves usually belong to churches).
Also wasn't the UK one of the countries where you can burry people on private property anyway? If the whole thing is oh-so-important they could always do it that way, as no one can touch you for doing so.
You need the permission of local councils for all kinds of things, most of them relating to building codes (paint your house pink for example), despite it relating to private property. This could relate to any number of regulations in place.
Would be interesting if anyone from the UK with knowledge could elaborate.
“The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply,” Stephen Covey.
English is not my main language so grammar errors might happen.
I don't get why the father is asking for this? Does he not realize his dead son cannot see his own tombstone? Grief is a strong emotion and it's better we have people making these weird requests as opposed to somebody losing it and shooting up a mall.
Sometimes it's easier to ask for forgiveness than permission and this would be the case.