Likes: Be Nice or Mean?

[cs1310]

I think being receptive makes it far easier to have an amicable discussion even though it's probably a natural inclination to go on the offensive. Being nice means both sides are more willing to listen but it's not as fun.

[vindicatorx]

I'm nice to anyone until they inevitably give me a reason to not be nice.

pretty much this. I'm polite and cordial until you annoy me.