I don't abuse or swear at players, that's once again your twisted narrative to make me look as bad as you imagine me to be instead of taking things at face value. I'm having a pretty civilized discussion with Necromantic over there even if we disagree it's an enjoyable conversation, why do you need to always come on the defensive like I strangled your cat and stuffed it in your cereal box?
I'm arrogant, I'll give you that. But that's not an argument, and it doesn't discredit anything I said. I don't think I'm the best player in the world, I dont even do anything over +20, I won't go to the MDI, I won't clear mythic EP. But I can definitely point out basic mistakes that the majority of players I pug with do, in a helpful manner, mind you, not by insulting right out the gate like you wrongly imagine me doing. I learned the game by playing with people far better than me back in vanilla/tbc and they would point out mistakes I did. It made me a much better player pretty quick, I'm very grateful for that, and like the saying goes "do to others what you want them to do to you". I believe we get better by sharing knowledge, I work in a teamwork environment where we communicate a lot to improve everything, the most efficient way to improve is point out the flaws and iron them out. I apply the same in game and in my life. It's a very positive and satisfying attitude that I think the gaming community is severaly lacking (which is ironic because my job is making video games).
It's important in life to understand your place, if someone is better than you, it's probably wise to listen to them, if you're better than someone, it's helpful to share your knowledge and give tips. The concept of "arrogance" comes from inferior people who don't know their place and refuse to learn from better people.
I'm in the same cycle, I'm not above it all, I took a break from BfA, when I came out the emissary affix was already out for a while in +10s and I had no idea what they did. I fucked up a few times, some people helped by explaining how to do some pulls correctly, I apologized for my mistakes, thanked them for helping me figure things out and now I do it properly, learned from failures and helpful tips. Now I can give back. People who don't want it like what you seem to be, can choke on it, it's their problem, not mine.
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Mistakes are extremely important, that's how human beings learn. If you don't learn from your mistakes it literally means you have a learning disability. I already explained the "feel bad" thing in another post but so you don't need to scroll through everything basically I only mean you should feel something, it's a little negative feeling that gives us the push to do better next time. We're not supposed to feel nothing or feel good about it. Normal human behaviour is feeling slightly bad after doing something wrong, it's no big deal, I'm certainly not talking about depression or breaking down crying.