I'm with OP 100%
I will add to it that I thought they made titanforging worse by significantly lowering the odds in BFA compared to Legion. The system worked perfectly in that expansion. Always a chance for an upgrade made for an excellent carrot running lower difficulties not only for helping out others but yourself as well.
Been raiding mythic in parts of Legion and most of BFA, and I just don't find it fun anymore. The latter halves of every mythic raid are practice of muscle memory 'til you got it, like professional showdancing or something to that effect, and is thus asking for high commitment. I'm not opposed to the setting and think it should exist, but I don't think any of those people are running mythic for ilvl-prestige in the first place. It should drop highest ilvl available of course, but it doesn't have to be the sole source of such gear.