On the contrary, I'm fully respected in any guild that I join (not that I guild-hop, when I join a guild I stay in it until it disbands, so my average is ~2-3yrs/guild). If you don't play an MMORPG to socialise, then I'm sorry, but there are much better RPG's with their own leaderboards so you can get your legendary parses on. Like I mentioned before - I don't mind the PEOPLE who raid-log, they're free to play however they want, but the ACTION of raid logging, I despise. Also, officers are by definition NOT raid loggers - they have recruiting to take care of, loot distribution to discuss, rosters to fix, you name it. I at least help them with their alts, or take some of the officer-burden off their shoulders by being a reliable, active member (like becoming Guild Enchanter).
What does the raid-logger do to help out the officer team? That's right, nothing. He just signs up to raids, and shows up, the de-facto attitude of EVERY raid member. The bare minimum. Again, another activity the raid-logger takes no part in (raid management) yet gets full benefits (a smooth and functioning raid with 0 drama). It appears to me you have never been in an officer's position in a serious raiding guild, hence why you belittle all other non-raiding activities. I, on the contrary, HAVE been an officer, and I know about ALL the extra work these people put in. Which is why I always tip my hat off to the officer team, and always cut them some slack, because all the people criticising the officer team for X or Y reason wouldn't last a day in their shoes.
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I'm giving you examples as to why being an active player > being a raid logger, and you're not even answering to the stuff I'm telling you. You want equal gear priority when you have put in 50% effort compared to people who have put in 100% effort (active players) and people who have put in 150% effort (the officer team responsible for raid smoothness/no drama/roster stability etc etc). It's even obvious from the way you phrase things. You say " I'm not going to spend them doing atunement quests I've already done.", I say "I'm helping new guildies get raid-ready, because my raid needs this new rogue, and it will benefit me and my raidgroup if we get him attuned". You think of yourself, I think of the guild as a whole. That's probably a decent enough explanation as to why we see things differently