Originally Posted by
Omedon
I'd like everyone to join me on a thought experiment for just a moment. You can go back to your hater threads after this moment but I'd like you to step back from the ongoing covenant discussions to take a bigger look at a trend that has been part of WoW for a long time.
Ask yourself: How important is "simming" and "optimal play" and the way one's hand feels forced by one imposing itself on the other. Be real here, what level do you play at? Who do you play with? How do you play WoW, when you're actually enjoying BEING your character?
If you play among friends, doing content that, everyone being real with each other in said group of friends, your group truly "belongs" at, your freedom is boundless within an access level of play for said group. Now, I once played with a player that wanted to play a frost mage as "I spam blizzard" and not be challenged because "we're all friends here," (that didn't fly and she moved on eventually) but there's a big difference between that and demanding everyone around you put ambition and optimization over personal character concept and overall enjoyment of one's avatar in a game. Are you really that put out if your friend specs in a way that fits their vision of their character, yet plays "good enough" in your group, while not being capital-O optimal?
The other end of the spectrum is when ambition is the whole point of the grouping, the whole point of the game. Literally the only people in this space are those that actually compete professionally. In their case, they are paid to be ambitious. They sell the "soul" of their characters for actual real life money. I can't fault them for that. That is, in that vein, living the dream.
But it IS a dream! It's a dream that most of us will never attain. That's not being a Debbie downer, that's me being honest!
So if you know you won't be a [insert favorite world first team or other pro player here], why would you sell the soul of your character? Why even push that level of ambition that chokes the fun out of the game? PVP? Again unless you're at top levels, comfort with your character should still take precedence.
Just because Blizzard wants to make a competition out of everything doesn't mean we have to stretch outside of our character concept comfort zone for another X percent advantage at the cost of actual enjoyment!
You can be ambitious, or you can have choice. It's your decision to make, but you are not a slave to ambition ("tension, your permanent condition!"-Crowded House). You just aren't. It's not a reflection of real life attitude or success, this is just a game, and a game should be fun. If your choices feel forced... step back and look at whether the pressure of ambition you feel is honestly worth the death of choice.
Me speaking for me, I will pick my covenants on character concepts. For those of you who "know your characters," I am here to validate for you, if you need it, that this decision is ok. Access level play will never be gated behind ambition. That's the nature of modern WoW. You will level, you will see it all, and if you play with friends and are real with yourself and each other, choice and the fun it brings is yours to reap.
Only you can rob yourself of the fun of choice. You aren't required to have crippling ambition to be a decent player or, and I can't believe I have to say this but... to be a decent person.
Thank you for reading. Be kind to yourself.