and thats the problem, there is no forsaken leadership. She has as much character development as the other forsaken leaders, the military commander whatshisname and the apothecary whats his name. Lillian voss has been in the forsaken for a year at most, and says she is only there to help new forsaken. Faol isnt even in the horde.
And the rest is just...
ok first of all the white savior thing is specifically about race. so if you nix that then its about, what? a 'better' person from the outside coming in and helping? Like i've said i'm not keen on the idea either but from a writing perspective there is nothing wrong with it. and its sort of fitting that she's like that because the ruler who betrayed them is the one who killed her, because she was trying to help them. Like she's literally this angelic being because she risked her life and died to help them.
And people dont need to understand you to help you. because part of helping you is understanding you. I can never understand what it slike to have ptsd or schizophrenia or assault trauma, but i can LISTEN to people who do and be there to help them how i can. it sounds like the point is "unless you have my hurt you cant help me"
by all means who should be the forsaken leader?