I'm gonna be perfectly honest.
I chain pulled with a OOM healer once, we wipe, I apologized and didn't call "toxic" the people who said I was dumb. Because they were right, I was dumb. Since then I changed my unit frames to see everyone's resources so I always check the healer's mana and it never happened again.
I fat fingered taunt in my dps rotation during a raid once, I publicly apologizes in discord to everyone because I was ashamed of being this stupid, no one really said anything. Would have been perfectly fine if they said I was a dumbfuck, because I was. I moved taunt far away from my rotation and that will never happened again.
The only moments I ever body pull is when I test the aggro range of mobs in a dungeon during the first week of an xpack. After that I just have the information necessary to never make mistakes. I don't consider this being "always play perfectly with a millimeter precision" like you said, I consider this the bare minimum of average gameplay everyone should easily do, because it's not hard, it's not complex, it barely requires any attention. And to double down on this I'm gonna give you a very concrete example that I think everyone experienced at least once:
On the green path of this map:
At the second corner angle near the M of menagerie there's a pack that is supposed to be skipped (this is for anything under +10 currently), in like 99% of the time the first person ahead will hug the far left on the edge and not pull, there's always a goddamn moron behind who JUST SAW HOW TO DO IT CORRECTLY and makes the CONSCIOUS DECISION to walk on a DIFFERENT PATH more to the right and of course he fucking pulls.
I have never body pulled this in my life. I don't think I'm special, I don't think this is an amazing feat of skills. I think this is completely average. I think anyone who body pulls this shit after seeing others do it correctly are LITERALLY BRAIN DAMAGED. It's the exact same thing as seeing the lights go green and walk directly into traffic.
Seriously why are people body pulling this shit? It's not pets, it's not a bug, there's nothing other than them moving incorrectly, nothing other than them being bellow average and wasting everyone's time.
I once watched the same person pull this 3 times in a row, and every single time he died and came back, I was there to show him the extremely easy path again. When he finally made it, while we were fighting the next pack HE BACK PEDALLED INTO THIS SAME PACK WE SKIPPED.
So there's only 2 possible answer to this. Either the average level of skill is not pulling easily skippable packs which means I'm an average player and the people who body pull are straight up idiots. Or skipping these is actually high level gameplay and the average is to fuck it up almost every time, which makes me a god among mere mortals.
I think it's option one. I'm not special, too many people suck at easy things.
Hamilton fucked up, he knows he did, there's probably a bunch of people on social media calling him an idiot. And it would be wrong if he argued against that. It was a dumb move and that's all there is to it. Can't blame people and call them toxic just for calling things for what they are, that's such a regressive behavior.
What matters is owning your mistakes like the first examples I gave above, not shift the blame to others under the guise of "toxicity", they wouldn't say anything if the mistake didn't happen in the first place. The source of the issue is to blame, not the symptoms.
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Strawman doesn't mean "something I don't agree with".
I will help you by teaching you what a strawman is:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Straw_man
Now you can read up on it and learn so you can retract your incorrect statement.
I gave examples, I don't know if they confused you, they shouldn't have because they're easy to follow, but there's no form of strawman in any of my posts.
Not to mention I haven't acted "toxic as hell" either. That's you being offended, not me actually being toxic. Gigantic difference there buddy.
This is what I've been saying since the beginning. People playing bad and not taking responsibility, they instead cry and/or try to report the people who point out what happened. The correct behavior is admitting you fucked up and welcoming the "lol u suck" messages without considering them toxic.