Exactly
There’s a reason I went from a cesspool social guild sometimes running lfr in MoP to heroic progression on SoO
It’s wanting to do something
The only thing this thread has shown is people that have excuses as to why they can’t or shouldn’t have to do what the players they deem “elitist” do
It’s the same as when you have a guildie refusing to join vent because they don’t have a mic so they want you to do things like make macros
“How dare you not invite me to your group over the other guys that have experience and more gear!! You should want to teach me the fights instead of getting it done quickly”
It’s actually getting more and more pathetic that the blame falls on social issues or anxiety when in reality no matter who ya are you get nervous making the first step and expecting others to put in extra effort to make your experience better when you refuse to do the same for them is selfish and nothing to pity.
Make your own groups if you wanna get better gear and accept that you’re gonna fail instead of trying to get carried then bitching when you screw up the run for the people you used for a carry. Buy a token and use that