People aren't talking semantics in this thread. They're talking about nuance and perspective. Different people have different ideas of what P2W means and your claim isn't any more correct or valid that most people's opinions. And no, your commentary about your brother is not proof that P2W doesn't exist. It's just an anecdote about someone who didn't use any outside help.
And seriously, a censored insult is still an insult and frankly pretty rude.