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  1. #261
    Quote Originally Posted by Magnagarde View Post
    As I've already said:
    Which says literally nothing.

    Stop. Victim. Blaming.

  2. #262
    Quote Originally Posted by Magnagarde View Post
    A lawsuit is just a lawsuit. If someone did something wrong and it is proven in court, then let them answer for it as is prescribed by the law and that's it.
    See this is why I think it's crazy California does regulatory actions like this. Pleading a lawsuit in a civil court gives the impression this is manifestly less serious than it is.

    This is not actually 'just a lawsuit' this is a regulatory action being carried out by a government regulator in accordance with the penalty sections of the relevant act(s).
    Tonight for me is a special day. I want to go outside of the house of the girl I like with a gasoline barrel and write her name on the road and set it on fire and tell her to get out too see it (is this illegal)?

  3. #263
    Quote Originally Posted by Evilfish View Post
    How is it kind of toxic? You one of those "believe everyone who says they are the victim" type? Cause if you are then I guess you'd be too far up your own ass to hear any of the words I'm sending in your direction, but in the event you are not, how do I determine who is the victim? By at least, questioning their motives and trying to see what they might have to gain from being seen as the victim aside justice.
    "We should assume people are innocent until proven guilty, that's why I think this person is perjuring themselves." Let me know when you figure it out.
    Quote Originally Posted by Rudol Von Stroheim View Post
    I do not need to play the role of "holier than thou". I'm above that..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Evilfish View Post
    how do I determine who is the victim?
    I dunno, but it certainly isn't the people who have been investigated by the state of California for the past two years.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magnagarde View Post
    As I've already said:
    Yes, we know.

    It doesn't matter how "reasonable" you attempt to make your victim blaming sound, it's still victim blaming.
    Quote Originally Posted by Marjane Satrapi
    The world is not divided between East and West. You are American, I am Iranian, we don't know each other, but we talk and understand each other perfectly. The difference between you and your government is much bigger than the difference between you and me. And the difference between me and my government is much bigger than the difference between me and you. And our governments are very much the same.

  5. #265
    Quote Originally Posted by Saltysquidoon View Post
    See this is why I think it's crazy California does regulatory actions like this. Pleading a lawsuit in a civil court gives the impression this is manifestly less serious than it is.

    This is not actually 'just a lawsuit' this is a regulatory action being carried out by a government regulator in accordance with the penalty sections of the relevant act(s).
    Using an adversarial system instead of a peremptory one that inevitably leads to the case being addressed in an adversarial system. Just obviates a step.
    Quote Originally Posted by Rudol Von Stroheim View Post
    I do not need to play the role of "holier than thou". I'm above that..

  6. #266
    Quote Originally Posted by Edge- View Post
    The problem is not, and has never been, people sending consensual nudes. The problem is, and always has been, people receiving those nudes then sharing them with others without the consent of the person who sent them.

    This is rank victim blaming.
    It isn't victim blaming and I feel like the point is missed again; I'm trying to tell people to never let themselves slip up and believe that they can place their privacy in someone else's hands that easily. It doesn't matter if whoever shares your pictures illegaly has to pay a fine or goes to jail; they'll still have shared your picture and you'll still go through the trauma.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magnagarde View Post
    It isn't victim blaming; I'm trying to tell people to never let themselves slip up and believe that they can place their privacy in someone else's hands that easily.
    Sorry that you're single, I guess.

    And you can do that without saying that people who get their nudes leaked without their consent are to blame for said leak, as well. That's the difference: the sin is the leaking, not the taking of the picture in the first place. This is bordering on puritanical.
    Quote Originally Posted by Marjane Satrapi
    The world is not divided between East and West. You are American, I am Iranian, we don't know each other, but we talk and understand each other perfectly. The difference between you and your government is much bigger than the difference between you and me. And the difference between me and my government is much bigger than the difference between me and you. And our governments are very much the same.

  8. #268
    Quote Originally Posted by Magnagarde View Post
    It isn't victim blaming and if it comes across as it, then the point is missed again; I'm trying to tell people to never let themselves slip up and believe that they can place their privacy in someone else's hands that easily.
    You are describing victim blaming lol.

  9. #269
    Quote Originally Posted by Elegiac View Post
    Yes, we know.

    It doesn't matter how "reasonable" you attempt to make your victim blaming sound, it's still victim blaming.
    If I wanted to victim blame, I'd just outright victim blame. It's not like I have something to hide here lol

  10. #270
    Quote Originally Posted by Evilfish View Post
    How is it kind of toxic? You one of those "believe everyone who says they are the victim" type? Cause if you are then I guess you'd be too far up your own ass to hear any of the words I'm sending in your direction, but in the event you are not, how do I determine who is the victim? By at least, questioning their motives and trying to see what they might have to gain from being seen as the victim aside justice.
    I believe the victims after they go to the state and ask the state itself to do an investigation to where they find sufficient evidence of systemic sexual abuse. which is exactly what happened here. YOU assuming they have ulterior motives is you projecting your own biases of the subject onto people who as far as ANY of us know have done exactly what they should have done in this circumstance.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Magnagarde View Post
    If I wanted to victim blame, I'd just outright victim blame.
    Yeah, we know. Why do you think people have been asking you to stop doing it? Lol.

    Y'all really need to step back and take a look at yourselves if you're at the point of actively defending sexual harassment because you're worried it'll impact your video games.
    Quote Originally Posted by Marjane Satrapi
    The world is not divided between East and West. You are American, I am Iranian, we don't know each other, but we talk and understand each other perfectly. The difference between you and your government is much bigger than the difference between you and me. And the difference between me and my government is much bigger than the difference between me and you. And our governments are very much the same.

  12. #272
    Quote Originally Posted by unfilteredJW View Post
    You are describing victim blaming lol.
    No, I'm describing being cautious about who you trust. No law or punishment for the perp can replace that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elegiac View Post
    Yeah, we know. Why do you think people have been asking you to stop doing it? Lol.
    I don't know why to be honest with you. I'm basically asking people to be careful with what they do, but I guess telling people to not trust others easily with their privacy, especially if they're sensititive about it, is a bad thing.

    At this point it's just going back and forth. I'll just let it rest.

  13. #273
    Quote Originally Posted by Ripster42 View Post
    "We should assume people are innocent until proven guilty, that's why I think this person is perjuring themselves." Let me know when you figure it out.
    There is no supreme law stating breaches of the equal pay act or "FEHA" could not be dealt with by way of specialised tribunal or division of the Court or indeed drafted so that the penalty sections attracted criminal liability. The way such cases are presently handled is a direct decision by the legislature at the time of enactment.

    My point is pleading the case in a general division gives the perception to the public this is a compensatory matter and not a regulatory one.
    Tonight for me is a special day. I want to go outside of the house of the girl I like with a gasoline barrel and write her name on the road and set it on fire and tell her to get out too see it (is this illegal)?

  14. #274
    The big thing that fucks me over again and again is Blizzard's virtue signalling.

  15. #275
    Quote Originally Posted by Ripster42 View Post
    So it's not like Murillo Cuellar wasn't a contributor to the harassment. Your link lends support to the existence of a toxic culture, when one of the people who participated in it admits it ("joke about my sexism...").
    I don't see that statement as confirming that that he was actually sexist, but read it as there were jokes about him being sexist (and likely sexist against women as part of machista culture) due to racial prejudice - while neither confirming nor denying that he was sexist.

    Especially as the statement isn't "joke about my sexism" but "joke about my sexism, or natural inclination to be sexist, ..."

    Basically assume he wasn't sexist - but there were jokes about him being sexist, wouldn't you find that statement sort of natural in that case? Or how would you describe it - without coming off as a try-hard.

  16. #276
    Quote Originally Posted by Orby View Post
    People defending Blizzard like someone made a twitlonger... this isn't a single person with a grudge, Its a whole frikkin state, with a two year investigation under their belt... Come on you bleepy bloops wake up and get that tin foil off your heads.
    And given that the investigation started two years ago means this “frat boy” culture was probably going on long before their investigation, which makes me wonder about other people that have left Blizzard over the years, that they were maybe trying to get out because they were involved or were innocent and didn’t want to be there when shit inevitably hit the fan.

  17. #277
    Quote Originally Posted by Elegiac View Post
    Y'all really need to step back and take a look at yourselves if you're at the point of actively defending sexual harassment because you're worried it'll impact your video games.
    You've just pulled out a strawman. Nobody is defending sexual harassment; anyone who is found to be guilty should be punished. I personally only want to see people being careful with what can possibly hurt them in the end. No punishment for the guilty can reverse the trauma. My advice comes from a place of care for the well-being of others.

    Take care of yourselves people.

  18. #278
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    Quote Originally Posted by Magnagarde View Post
    Taking a picture of oneself being nude always comes with the risk of said pictures being leaked. This is something everyone needs to know and understand. Wether someone else is punished for it or not is irrelevant to the point of the trauma that the owner of the photos has to go through.
    In the same way that walking down an alleyway has risks. Or having a shared bank account. Or ordering something online. Or driving a car, well, literally anywhere.

    That there are risks does not mean that those exploiting or creating those risks are not at fault for doing so, or that those who have a negative outcome due to said risks are not victims.

    You're victim-blaming. That's your entire argument, here. Blame those who made it risky to begin with, not their victims, dude. It's not that fuckin' hard.


  19. #279
    Quote Originally Posted by Endus View Post
    In the same way that walking down an alleyway has risks. Or having a shared bank account. Or ordering something online. Or driving a car, well, literally anywhere.

    That there are risks does not mean that those exploiting or creating those risks are not at fault for doing so, or that those who have a negative outcome due to said risks are not victims.

    You're victim-blaming. That's your entire argument, here. Blame those who made it risky to begin with, not their victims, dude. It's not that fuckin' hard.
    Do I really have to tell you that I too believe that anyone who shares someone's private pictures without that someone's consent should be punished? Did this really elude you from everything I wrote above? Seriously.

    The point is that people need to draw a lesson from this and that is to be careful. Yes, that includes going down a dark alley in whatever city you find yourself in and yes, this includes having a shared bank account. Try to walk down a path that's well-lit and try to have a private bank account, because no amount of punishment for whoever does you ill in a dark alley will revert the stress not being careful will give you.

    Victim blaming would be saying that it's the person's fault for taking a picture of their private parts, which is what I am not doing. What I am doing is saying that everyone should be extra cautious when doing so.
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  20. #280
    Ah yes!

    Activision Blizzard Hires Former Trump Administration Member Once Decried As ‘Bully’

    I won't get political on the General Forums, but seems fitting to what looks like a toxic culture at Blizz-Activision.
    Democrats are the best! I will never ever question a Democrat again. I LOVE the Democrats!

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