Cool, paying your victims off is not "redeeming yourself".
Which is entirely a function of you being unable to assess which allegations are substantive and which aren't.2. It seems like there will be controversial allegations made against every POTUS or major POTUS candidate in my lifetime so if I took them very seriously I'd never vote. Which isn't reasonable.
Said personal flaws inform the policies they support. They aren't separate.3. Policy is more important than various personal flaws, such as being a creepy horndog.
Seems more like you just don't think being a sex pest is an issue.