1. First of all: it's not even a ff14 meme; it's objectively a World of Warcraft meme because it clearly comes from streamers that almost exclusively based their career on world of wacraft and their viewers are world of warcraft players or ex world of warcraft players.
2. Secondly: ff14 is not even anything new or emerging; it's a very old game that the streamers had no clue it existed so they have the delusion that it is fresh; on top of it: literally nobody outside the mmo sphere knows it even exists and it was never in the top10.
3. And most impressively of all: the memesters have the delusion that ff14 is "friendly" and "welcoming" compared to wow; did those people ask anyone that does end game in that game: because it is clear that end game ff14 players report blatant toxicity.