First off, get your head out of your ass.
Secondly, again, still outdated. You assume outdated means wrong. As it relies on the assumption we are capable of detecting life, an assumption we have no reason to make when we still argue about what qualifies as life on this planet. And no, if we find life it would not make the Fermi Paradox outdated, it would make the Fermi Paradox no longer a paradox or potentially even wrong. (Akin to Zeno's Paradoxes).
It assume if life is out there we should possess the ability to detect it. This is literally the largest counterpoint to the alleged paradox. We know that there is zero reason to assume we possess the ability to detect life outside of we are alive.
Again, Darwin's Theory of Evolution is outdated. It is not wrong because we have improved our understanding since Darwin.