She is literally yelling at him. You are the one lying. Go back and watch the episode.
People want to excuse her behavior so badly that they are just completely oblivious to it.
Her reason for having infinitely more experience then him controlling anger is because hse is a women and he is a man. ANyone trying to argue against this is just arguing in bad faith and its obvious.
I wonder if she literally just said it people would still try and act like she didnt.