Originally Posted by
Cthulhu 2020
Way to come out swinging with those ad hominems champ. But good on you for making a burner account just so you could say it! You're a champ. And by the way, you come across as more combative than me. But that's to be expected since you AMDE AN ACCOUNT SPECIFICALLY TO ENGAGE WITH ME IN CONVERSATION.
Conversation: People in dungeons are straight up AFKing or pushing one button and doing 5% of the dungeon's total damage, that's not okay.
Yarathir: Who are you to tell them what they can and can't do? If we use addons, then we'll start having a culture where people who don't do their maximum DPS are going to be shamed and kicked!
Me: We're not talking about people doing maximum DPS, we're talking about people who are just straight up lazy and want a free ride.
Yarathir: BUT IF WE DON'T LET THESE PEOPLE DO WHAT THEY WANT THEN SLIPPERY SLOPE EVERYONE WILL START SHAMING EVERYONE AHHHH
Me: Can you please get on topic? This is about people being AFK in dungeons.
Yarathir: You're dumb and I'm trying my hardest to make this conversation about damage meter shaming.
Me: Damage meter shaming which literally can't happen since it's against TOS?
Yarathir: OMG YOU DON'T GET IT I WON'T ENGAGE WITH YOU ANY MORE!
So if you're jumping into the conversation, starting point question:
Should 3 people be beholden to carry one person who wants to simply AFK through a dungeon? Yes or no.
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Man you really did rub one out. I led a top 50 WoW guild back in Vanilla in Naxx, funny how that works? Then spent another 10 years raid leading before bowing out because WoW became shit. I've been playing online games since the mid 90's with MUDs and eventually Ultima Online and Everquest. I've sat through 8 hour boss kills in the Planes of Hate and so forth. I have triple legend and have been taking it quite slow and easy for DSR. I have plenty of experience my guy.
They're analogous, in that while the situation is not the exact same, the overall concept is similar and thus one can make a fair point. Does someone AFKing in a dungeon affect your IRL as much as someone being lazy on a project? No. But during University I often carried my groups while 3 people did nothing, 2 people sorta helped, and I did 60% of the work. I resented those people for leeching a free ride off our hard work, but back then I was too nervous to confront them about it. And with how I like to succeed in everything, I was all too willing to be the stooge that did all of the work. But I made sure to tell the professors about it. Was I chicken shit for not confronting the people directly? Sure. But I wasn't going to let them off with a free ride completely.
My standard is that they not be AFK. And that they perhaps press a button once every 3 or 4 seconds. So your questions asking me what my threshold is, it's pretty damn low. In roulette group content, I hardly expect someone to perform great or even average. But BEING PRESENT would be nice.
Or perhaps it's more indicative of an overall attitude, that I take everything I do with some level of seriousness. Even when I'm having fun playing games. I'm not beating myself up over this kind of stuff or agonizing over it, but with 25 years of MMO experience, doing well is just second nature to me. It's not even a matter of practice. I have the pedigree.
Your entire post seems to be some massive diatribe against me when you clearly have no clue what the discussion was even about. You talk about casual players who seek to improve, but do not do well yet. But you know what? If I see that someone is trying and dying a lot in a dungeon, I will gladly help them. I appreciate people who TRY. What I don't appreciate is people who don't try.
But both you and Yarathir have tried to psychoanalyze me, as well as change what the conversation is about, or add on extras like casuals who are just bad at the game. It's pretty obvious to see when someone is trying and when someone is not my guy. Also, the psychoanalyzation and trying to get under my skin by pointing out personality traits you believe I have is a pretty cringe move. I'm smelling OMEGA projection on your part.
So what now, now that your attempt to roll me by using the same strawman has failed?
See that's the thing, you're trying to make this conversation about something it's not. Dragging it over into territory about the "casuals" who are having a hard time and trying so hard, omg why do you hate them? Again, it's pretty obvious when it's leeches and when it's something who's trying their best. I'm talking about the leeches. You two are trying to make it about the people trying their best. I do not shame people with ACT. I do not shame people who try. I am specifically talking about people who are lazy leeches and want a free ride. If you can't address that specifically, please take a hike.