why do females nowdays reject moustaches

[AestostheInsane]

Females nowadays dont reject mustaches, they reject poor grooming. If you can't keep your shit trimmed or looking clean you're out. Also don't try to grom one if you're one of those unfortunate people that can't. Just accept your fate. I've had facial hair since I was 16 and honestly my wife and pretty much all our female friends say I look stupid without it. Shaved once for work/dentist appointment for oral surgery where they made me shave it. So sometime it fits. Sometimes it doesn't its not an overall consensus though.

[Deleted]

stache+goatee=prison pussy

Closely shaven stubble is where it's at. Gives women the image you're a rough cowboy yet not 'gross' by today's standards. And it's not even gross. Real men have hair!

[LurkerOnly]

Ohhh, I see what you did there. You know, some people who love their husbands or wives and are willing to change for them. If the wife says "I hate that beard would you shave it ?" You answer is, "Get lost ! My beard makes me a real man !" You see, some men love their wives more than they love their beards.

Ahhh, the insecure.

No, I found a woman who was woman enough to not need to change me, and she found a man who was man enough to not need to change her.

Some people can relate to other people as adults without making ultimatums and forcing each other to change. A lot of them actually. It's irritating when the insecure and despondent spread misinformation about how either A) women are badass and you have to change for them or B) you have to tell your woman how to act because YOU'RE A MAN! and there is no possibility of coexistance.

Neither men nor women just automatically get to win because THEY'RE THE WOMAN AND YOU GET NO SEX or I'M THE MAN AND YOU CAN'T TELL ME WHAT TO DO!

Both of those are immature, and extremely unhelpful to the OP. I'm trying to explain to him that if you really try, and keep an open mind, you can find someone who doesn't force you to change, and you don't have to force her to accept you either.

Adult relationships exist, stop trying to drag this guy down because you're lonely.

[Deleted]

80's porn star beard ftw!

[Osyrus]

Mustaches ..yes

full lumber jack beards like my bf
or a goatee nope

[Evelyn]

because they tickle duh! nah i'm always sporting a moustache/goatee, sometimes combined with a bootstrap. if i shave everything off, i look like i'm in high school again.

however, a short beard aint bad, long as you shave the neck and keep it straight.

[halmotors]

A few people have already mentioned it, but women don't hate beards/staches, they hate when they're wild and unkempt and when they don't match your style.



This is how you do it. I have no problems attracting women, because it works for my body style and my personal style. If you posted a picture of yourself, we would tell you whether it works for you or not.

[Deleo]

About time for one of these epic threads. I'm laughing my ass off.

[slinx]

Based on a lot of information I have gathered from women on this topic. There are several facts I have put together for facial hair to "work".

It has to be full, meaning no peach fuzz, or bare spots. If you don't meet this paremeter, shave it off. Some men just aren't cut out to have it, and some men shave twice a day. Blame genetics. Or God if you are emo.

5 oclock shadows are definately ok, but when it just starts to get muffy and you can see the hairs curl, some women don't like it.

All women have different taste, you should do what you want to do, and you will find a woman.

Make sure it's well groomed, (you can pick that one up from 40 year old virgin) women don't want a guy with a lopsided goatee or big bushy mustaches these days, it's just trends.. just like guys don't want the 80's hairdoos on women.. its the china man.. (same sing).

In summary, the best combination or short answer would be to keep it clean. No matter what style you have, make yourself look "clean cut". The best combination that attracts women as a whole are.. "strong manly men", that are clean. No woman can resist a strong man with a clean beard. It is genetics. Just like no man can resist a skinny, toned, tan woman.

Take the above with a grain of salt, I rambled a bit.

[achaeon]

It tickles when you kiss her on the cheek or neck etc - that is true, the tickle.
It actually DOES hurt when kissing on the lips
It's like kissing a little hedgehog.

Usually when the hair grows it, it's softer. Mine is. My wife only complains if I shave it and am growing it again, then it gets prickly for a while.

[Deleted]

Women don't reject facial hair.

Women reject men - some of which have facial hair.
Some of these men have a hard time realizing that it's not the 'stache..but them.




Also: Men with beards are superior

[fishface]

They're not fashionable.

[Vraizan]

they are scratchy and most of time don't look that well kept. I have the same feeling about beards and become quite irritated when my BF doesn't shave for a few days.

[Mif]

[achaeon]

they are scratchy and most of time don't look that well kept. I have the same feeling about beards and become quite irritated when my BF doesn't shave for a few days.

But they're only scratchy in that 'few days' stage. If you grow it into a real beard/stache, it should be a lot softer.

[Stalemate]

I fire back on occasion, often rubbing her legs and saying those stubs could saw through steel. Doesn't work out well for me...

[Vaught]

/thread

has to be? surely?

[Osyrus]

A few people have already mentioned it, but women don't hate beards/staches, they hate when they're wild and unkempt and when they don't match your style.



This is how you do it. I have no problems attracting women, because it works for my body style and my personal style. If you posted a picture of yourself, we would tell you whether it works for you or not.

you look just like my BF- just a different hair color and you are correct...i have to beat women back with a stick they love it!

[Mad_Murdock]

Ahhh, the insecure.

No, I found a woman who was woman enough to not need to change me, and she found a man who was man enough to not need to change her.

Adult relationships exist, stop trying to drag this guy down because you're lonely.

Lonely ? I'm married with Kids. I'll say you done something I've never seen if you found a woman that hasn't asked you to change a single thing about youself or any habits you like. I mean really...she's never asked you to change any habits ? None whatsoever ? and if you never asked you wife to change anything that's pretty amazing as well. Adult relantionships are give and take...if you found one that requires Zero give...my hats off to you

MY point was not to be a "yes man" but to realize that what you might think makes you look cool and awesome, may not makes you look cool and awesome. If the OP says he wants to look like Wolfman Jack and he wants someone to love him for that, then sure go for that look and never yeild. But you can't come to forms asking why "I can't find no ladies" If a certain look isn't working, you have to change the look "IF" you want more chances. If you don't care...then don't change a thing.

[tugnutt7]

That is why men everywhere should participate in Movember.
Not only does it force women to deal with the stache.
It also raises awareness for prostate cancer.
http://www.movember.com