Originally Posted by
eucatastrophe
While I have lost over 30 pounds (and gained then some but in hard muscle), I am no fitness expert. So I don't want to give you wrong dietary advice. While the whole 5 small meals, with snacks in between, etc thing worked for me, perhaps it isn't advisable for you especially at your weight level (sorry, don't mean to be indelicate).
What I do know though is that there is stuff out there that is universally bad.
Get rid of the soft drinks. Just get rid of them. Coke, Pepsi, all that crap. Cut. It. Out. If you need an energy boost, have a black coffee.
That's another thing - no more sugar in your tea or coffee. Excess sugar that you don't need (at this point). Don't have it in your oatmeal, cereal - just don't.
And be wary of coffees from Starbucks, etc. Their drinks are loaded in calories so you might want to lay off those lattes till you hit your first target weight. Craving a coffee? Order it black. Get rid off cream from your life.
No more french fries. These things are seriously weapons of mass destruction. On that note, avoid fried food. It might be really hard, but opt for grilled, baked, broiled, etc. But no more fried food. Once you hit your target, you may be able to reintroduce it as a reward/cheat treat. But as off now, fried is stuff you don't need.
I found that cutting down on bread helped initially - I felt a lot lighter. And switch to brown or whole grain. Whole Wheat English Muffins are awesome; try those.
Milk - switch to skim or 1% or 2%. Similarly, go for the Light cheeses, light mayonnaises, light salad dressings. Avoid mozzarella. Avoid thick crust pizzas.
Oh and if you're eating something that you perceive to be healthy (eg. Thin crust pizza) - don't overdo it. You may end up defeating the purpose of having the healthier option. Eating 6 thin crust pizza slices is a fail. Eating one whole slab of dark chocolate is a fail. Eating half the tub of light ice cream is fail.
I second the poster that recommended Men's Health. If you can spare the cash, subscribe to them. If not, read up their articles online. They have great resources. They also put out editions on food - really taught me a lot.
Get into the fitness mindset. Train yourself so that you start to think "When will I work out today?" instead of "Will I work out today?"
As for motivation... tough one mate. We all struggle with it. There will be tough days.
Guess you have to ask yourself some questions: Why are you doing it? What do you hope to get out of it? What do you want more than this?
Once you have those answers, you have to remember that this isn't an overnight process. You probably already know that having lost 100 lbs - which is incredible btw. If you can do THAT, then you can most certainly do this. The key is that you can not lose sight of this amazing feat you did.
To give up now is to give up in sight of the finish line.