Topic came up earlier, and I was quite shocked how a lot of my friends (surprisingly enough plenty of females too), would regard a wife opting to keep her own family name instead of adopting her husband's as an act of utmost effrontery.
Granted, a lot of them probably grew up in a setting which was then still very conservative (I'm from an East-Asian country), but societal views even here have evolved drastically, so I thought there'd be a bit more leeway where that was concerned.
Doesn't seem that big a deal to me at all, honestly. I don't see how I could begrudge someone wanting to keep the name they'd had since they were born instead of adhering to unnecessary customs. I don't know if I'd feel less married to someone just because we continued to share a different surname.
Nevertheless, the viewpoints raised were quite interesting, and ranged from "misogynistic traditions" to "it would compromise the stability of the family unit if they don't have the same surname".
Was curious what MMO-C's take on it would be