Would you let your girlfriend/wife pose topless?

[Deleted]

Let's say your girlfriend/wife was randomly walking down the street when Hugh Hefner sees her and thinks she's beautiful. Him and like 6 Playboy bunnies approach her and offer her something like $2.5 million to pose topless on the cover of Playboy.

The photoshoot will be done by one of the world's top photographers, in an exotic location in Italy. And the multi-million dollar paycheck is guaranteed. You are even allowed to attend the photoshoot if you like.

Would you let her?

[Mekh]

Who wouldn't?

[Veyne]

It's not my call to make at all. I'm her lover, not owner. It's her decision.

[Blazenwing]

Absolutely I would, if it was something she genuinely wanted to do and was comfortable with. Posing topless for Playboy is a far cry from doing a pornographic movie or act. I'd have more trouble if she wanted to do a hardcore scene with another person. Just posing for a magazine by herself? Harmless (and a nice paycheck to boot. XD)

[Aratreis]

Well, it's hard to say without actually being given said opportunity, but I'd like to think I'd be all for it as long as my wife/gf wanted to do it. Though, if I were actually in the situation, it's hard to say. Jealousy can be an ugly, ugly thing after all.

[Tumble]

For sure, and if for some reason I said no, she would kick me in the nuts and go off and do it anyways. Who in their right mind would turn down the chance at 2.5 million bucks, a party with heff and the playmates and being married to a playmate...

[Deleted]

Pretty sure that if I thought I had a say in whether she was allowed to do it or not, I wouldn't have a girlfriend anymore.

[lvlark]

Sure.
TBH, if she wants it enough the money isn't important. It's pretty cool to be in a photoshoot by one of the world's top photographers in an exotic location (I'm going to replace 'in Italy' with something a bit further away though)

[Rampant Rabbit]

You make it sound as if you own her and have to give her permission before she does things. What she does is completely up to her alone, and it's up to her to take your feelings into account, but that doesn't mean she can't do it without your permission.

[Deleted]

Girlfriend = Yes

Wife = Not A Chance

[Dezerte]

Would you let her?

Odd reasoning there. Do you think men own their gf/wife?

[Deleted]

why not....?

[Friendlychap]

If you answer no to this you're insecure. *Fact.

[Xilurm]

Seriously? No jokes about kitchen and sandwiches? Wow i think humanity might have another chance. Guess I'd have to think about it whether to leave or stay when aliens come...

OT: It's her choice DUH!. And you'd have to be crazy to say no to 2.5 million.

[Jackmoves]

Sure, it's not a porno flick where she is getting d*cked by random dudes, it's a photoshoot, I got no problem with that.

[MerinPally]

She's not my pet she can do what she wants - I'd go with her unless she reaaally argued against it and sure I'd be apprehensive but if she says she wants to do it then that's her choice.

[Julian Rayne]

I wouldn't like it but it's not my call. Neither is it a dealbreaker for me.

[Xanjori]

If she wanted to I'd be totally fine with it.

[LurkerOnly]

Personally, I don't "let" or "not let" people do things. If they're an adult, it's their choice, unless it affects me directly.

Posing topless doesn't affect me directly. I might not like it, and there maybe consequences in the choices that I make personally afterward, but it's not up to me to "let" someone do something.

[Deleted]

It's not my decision at all. She is the one who can decide to do it or not, I wouldn't say a word to her either for or against.

But it would be a dealbreaker for me.
I wouldn't tell her in advance of course, I wouldn't want my wish to break up to condition her decision, it would be unfair for her.