As a woman I agree with this post pretty much absolutely. To say that ALL women do this is a bit harsh but it also depends on how immature both of you are and how young the relationship is. I can admit I used to be emotionally manipulative this way with my boyfriend some years ago, and in retrospect it was a very childish thing to do. Luckily, the older both of us got and the more the relationship progressed the less it happened and now we've been over these kinds of immature outbursts for maybe 2-3 years completely. So what I'm saying is IF both of you have the strength to pull through and grow up you can have a happy ending, but it requires some personal growth, patience and honesty.
IMO you should be open with her and tell her how her manipulative outbursts make you feel because you care so much about her. If she doesn't care when you're hurting/feeling bad maybe this isn't the person you want to be with.