My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic Part 8: Mmmcake

[Zanon]

or zanon

[Dontrike]

I have little doubt she'll be hurt by it. I even apologized in the letter about it, but I couldn't fucking hold it in anymore. I just can't, not and stay sane.

It is understandable that you had to say something. Getting stuff out there is usually best when trying to deal with a problem.

[Deleted]

That doesn't make you a pussy. Fact is you felt something and weren't thinking all that clearly, it makes you a little dumb, but who isn't when emotions run high?

This.
I'm bad at this kind of stuff so I'll just say that I second what Don has said. :>

[Enstorged]

Haaaiiii everypony!!!
SUP?!

[Illunis]

Haaaiiii everypony!!!
SUP?!

Hey dude.

We're currently talking about feels. And how feels feel.

Its deep bro.

[Dontrike]

What? Why would I call you a pussy? I never call threadgoers pussies. On top of that, I don't think it's a pussyish thing to do. I'm going to leave now lest I end up saying something I regret.

Just keep your thoughts and words calm and collected and no one would blame you for being a little blunt.

[Deleted]

Haaaiiii everypony!!!
SUP?!

Heyo Enst! \o
Doing great, you?

[Coffer]

Too many normals

Is there such a thing as 'normal' here?

[Dontrike]

Haaaiiii everypony!!!
SUP?!

Yozzers Enstorged. How are you today?

[Chrysia]

This.
I'm bad at this kind of stuff so I'll just say that I second what Don has said. :>

What makes me a pussy is that I put up with it. She does it all the goddamn time, and still I come running when she needs me. I've been her shoulder to cry on, I've been her math tutor, all while asking nothing but a bit of her time. I've tried, before, to make her understand why this hurts, but this time, I really went ape shit.

[Mixxy]

I know what you would probably say. I'm a fucking pussy. I am. And that's what pisses me off the most. I know it, but it doesn't change shit.

I wouldn't say you were a pussy for that. It takes guts to be brutally honest with someone when you're feeling hurt by them. Hell, I think sending that message was probably the best thing you could do.

[Dontrike]

Is there such a thing as 'normal' here?

Technically if weird is the majority, that makes it normal, so it is possible.

[Deleted]

I feel terrible now, and I shouldn't.

I have a friend, she's very cool and we've talked a lot and I like to think of her as a close friend. She travels a lot. Every time she's back in town, we talk about meeting up and catching up. For the past year and a half, it has never happened. We get to the point of hammering out details, then she goes silent on me. The next thing I hear from her, usually after a week or two, is she's going to be halfway around the world again, but that we'll meet up when she gets back.

This latest time, I know for a fact she's in town until August. She talks to me like she's excited to see me, we start talking about meeting up tomorrow afternoon last Tuesday. We get to the point of talking specifics, and she goes silent again. I ask her Sunday if we're still on for this Thursday. No response.

Today, I blow the fuck up. I pour my heart out to her, explaining how fucking hurt and angry I feel right now. My whole body is shaking the entire time. I hit send, and immediately I feel like a prick for basically forcing her into a corner where she has to answer me or feel like a bitch. Goddammit.

I once read a psychology book with a guy who said "You know why we fear the dark? Because we do not know what is in there, but our mind keeps saying that there might be something in there. That it's a possibility that there is something in the darkness, starring back at us. Our mind is the joker of our life - Whenever it can, it plays tricks on us, and it is a mastermind in hiding its tracks"

I think you did the right thing. I think that a clear answer will help you more than your mind coming up with different scenarios, good and bad.

It only took me about 2 minutes to reply. That's pretty good for me.

It is this picture.

That picture is amazing. If I didn't have a cute-as-all-hell Twilight Sparkle as my wallpaper, I would use this.

I love Maiden and Priest

Who doesn't :P

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http://www.mmo-champion.com/threads/...1#post17616796

Phreak pls

[Vetali]

Hey dude.

We're currently talking about feels. And how feels feel.

Its deep bro.

These feels don't feel.

[Chrysia]

I once read a psychology book with a guy who said "You know why we fear the dark? Because we do not know what is in there, but our mind keeps saying that there might be something in there. That it's a possibility that there is something in the darkness, starring back at us. Our mind is the joker of our life - Whenever it can, it plays tricks on us, and it is a mastermind in hiding its tracks"

I think you did the right thing. I think that a clear answer will help you more than your mind coming up with different scenarios, good and bad.

That, too, is part of the problem. My mind does that. I come up with a thousand reasons she could have gone silent on me, from she fucking hates me, to she got busy, to she's dead or dying. My brain just won't fucking stop. I don't think she gets that, though I've talked to her a bit about it in the past.

[Dontrike]

What makes me a pussy is that I put up with it. She does it all the goddamn time, and still I come running when she needs me. I've been her shoulder to cry on, I've been her math tutor, all while asking nothing but a bit of her time. I've tried, before, to make her understand why this hurts, but this time, I really went ape shit.

Yet again I will say it. It is understandable. I won't know the entire story, but telling the person how you feel is the best way to deal with the situation. Now I just hope you didn't call her any specific bad names, but I am going to assume you held it together some what. All you can do is wait and see how she reacts to it, if she ever does.

[Illunis]

These feels don't feel.

Bro, you gotta FEEL the feels. Otherwise, they just don't feel.

Feel them, then you'll feel the feels.

[Vetali]

What makes me a pussy is that I put up with it. She does it all the goddamn time, and still I come running when she needs me. I've been her shoulder to cry on, I've been her math tutor, all while asking nothing but a bit of her time. I've tried, before, to make her understand why this hurts, but this time, I really went ape shit.

Then why the fuck do you feel terrible after telling her when shes done nothing besides make you feel terrible?

Sounds like you did what you needed to do.

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Bro, you gotta FEEL the feels. Otherwise, they just don't feel.

Feel them, then you'll feel the feels.

Naaaah not feelin feels right now. Don't really want to either.

[Chrysia]

Yet again I will say it. It is understandable. I won't know the entire story, but telling the person how you feel is the best way to deal with the situation. Now I just hope you didn't call her any specific bad names, but I am going to assume you held it together some what. All you can do is wait and see how she reacts to it, if she ever does.

I didn't call her a bitch or anything. I focused mainly on how I feel, rather than anything, other than going silent, that she's done.