1. #33861
    Quote Originally Posted by Chrysia View Post
    That, too, is part of the problem. My mind does that. I come up with a thousand reasons she could have gone silent on me, from she fucking hates me, to she got busy, to she's dead or dying. My brain just won't fucking stop. I don't think she gets that, though I've talked to her a bit about it in the past.
    Well you clearly care for this person and it is normal to feel that way when you do. I know I think crazy stupid things when someone I care about is doing something I don't like or abnormal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zirusianna View Post
    That picture is amazing. If I didn't have a cute-as-all-hell Twilight Sparkle as my wallpaper, I would use this.
    Right, man? It's cool. It is my wallpaper right now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrysia View Post
    That, too, is part of the problem. My mind does that. I come up with a thousand reasons she could have gone silent on me, from she fucking hates me, to she got busy, to she's dead or dying. My brain just won't fucking stop. I don't think she gets that, though I've talked to her a bit about it in the past.
    I know that feel all too well.

    I'm horrible at giving advice. Not only does something (if not everything) always go wrong when someone listens to me, but I can't even listen to my own advice at times. However, I think you did the right thing there. She hasn't exactly been fair to you.

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    I know I think crazy stupid things when someone I care about is doing something I don't like or abnormal.
    Yyyyyyeah. I know what that reminds me of.


  4. #33864
    Quote Originally Posted by Illunis View Post
    Hey dude.

    We're currently talking about feels. And how feels feel.

    Its deep bro.
    ahh. yeah i know them feels!

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    Heyo Enst! \o
    Doing great, you?
    Hai shead! Headache! bored! wanna sleep! but it's too early! and bored!


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    Yozzers Enstorged. How are you today?
    Hai Dontrike! meh i'm fine having a bit of a headache atleast it's weekend in 2 days!

  5. #33865
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrysia View Post
    That, too, is part of the problem. My mind does that. I come up with a thousand reasons she could have gone silent on me, from she fucking hates me, to she got busy, to she's dead or dying. My brain just won't fucking stop. I don't think she gets that, though I've talked to her a bit about it in the past.
    And that is normal. Hell, you should have seen my RL mate when his girlfriend went to Italy for two weeks. The first two days he was a nervous breakdown. But he noticed how far out those scenarios were, how improbable they were. If there's 80% chance of something, you still thing "Oh god what if I land on that 1% and explode?" but you have to convince yourself that that is improbable and will most likely not happen. At all.

    As I said, I think a clear response from her is not only what you need, but what she needs. If she indeed goes silent on you due to fear of meeting you or anything, it's pretty important that you discuss that openly so you can answer some of those millions of questions you both sit with.

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    suuuuuuhhhhwaaaaag. Hey everypony, I have returned!

  7. #33867
    Quote Originally Posted by Vetali View Post
    Naaaah not feelin feels right now. Don't really want to either.
    K, no feels then.

    What do you want to do?

  8. #33868
    Quote Originally Posted by Chrysia View Post
    I didn't call her a bitch or anything. I focused mainly on how I feel, rather than anything, other than going silent, that she's done.
    Then you got a good head on your shoulders there and were an adult about it. You were honest about how you felt, now all you can do is wait. If she doesn't reply to it then I guess you have your answer on what she is doing to you, although I would wait a week at most for an answer to it.

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    Yozzers Tom. How are you today?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Illunis View Post
    K, no feels then.

    What do you want to do?
    Listen to some music and chillax. Maybe pray vidya gaems.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dontrike View Post
    Then you got a good head on your shoulders there and were an adult about it. You were honest about how you felt, now all you can do is wait. If she doesn't reply to it then I guess you have your answer on what she is doing to you, although I would wait a week at most for an answer to it.

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    Just dandy, yourself?

  12. #33872
    Quote Originally Posted by Vetali View Post
    Listen to some music and chillax. Maybe pray vidya gaems.
    You want pray game?!

    Wutcha listenin to?

  13. #33873
    Thanks guys. I hate to dump stuff like this in the thread, but I just really needed to get it off my chest. I'm too nice of a guy, and it makes me feel horrible when I do these things. Helps a bit to bounce it off others, makes me feel like less of a dick.

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  14. #33874
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    Quote Originally Posted by Vetali View Post
    Listen to some music and chillax. Maybe pray vidya gaems.
    > Chillaxin is a feel.
    Just Super Saiyan.

  15. #33875
    Quote Originally Posted by TheTomFlight View Post
    Just dandy, yourself?
    Doing alright, really tired from not sleeping at all last night, but besides that I am fine.

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  16. #33876
    Quote Originally Posted by Yakobo15 View Post
    > Chillaxin is a feel.
    Just Super Saiyan.
    Kobro with the knowledge smack down.

    Mmm.

  17. #33877
    Quote Originally Posted by Chrysia View Post
    Thanks guys. I hate to dump stuff like this in the thread, but I just really needed to get it off my chest. I'm too nice of a guy, and it makes me feel horrible when I do these things. Helps a bit to bounce it off others, makes me feel like less of a dick.
    Don't feel bad about putting it here. Almost all of us has opened up about one thing or another that is on our mind and we have done what we could to help.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vetali View Post
    Listen to some music and chillax. Maybe pray vidya gaems.
    I'm up for some TF2 or some shit if you're doing that later.

    Quote Originally Posted by Chrysia View Post
    Thanks guys. I hate to dump stuff like this in the thread, but I just really needed to get it off my chest. I'm too nice of a guy, and it makes me feel horrible when I do these things. Helps a bit to bounce it off others, makes me feel like less of a dick.
    Anytime. I hope it works out.

  19. #33879
    Quote Originally Posted by Yakobo15 View Post
    > Chillaxin is a feel.
    Just Super Saiyan.
    Yakobro knows how feels feel better than most.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Illunis View Post
    You want pray game?!

    Wutcha listenin to?
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8QPcXUdKRj4

    That but I'm not liking it so far.

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