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    Quote Originally Posted by Enzefik View Post
    She's the guild sweetheart. You're a new girl. She hates you because you might take attention away from her, even though she's worked her evil magics to make the guys in the guild do whatever the fuck she wants and never be mad at her. To put it simply: She's an attention whore who's pissed that there's a possible threat to her dominion of those people.
    And that is why there was a guild on my server called "No Chicks Allowed" where, you guessed it, women were not allowed in the guild.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DarkFerret View Post
    Sounds like a good reason to not play with them to me.
    Quote Originally Posted by Kaname View Post
    ^ This.

    Raiding in WoW, and in other games, is primarily fun because of the group you run with.
    And that's true, but I feel just as bad refusing to help them out when I'm perfectly capable of doing it. So I keep raiding and I just keep my mouth shut.

    Quote Originally Posted by Thoroar View Post
    Ouch, that sucks.
    Have you tried talking with the girl, asking why she expects high standards from you if she can't meet up with those herself?
    Nope, I'm kind of scared of her to be honest. I'm a wuss.

    Quote Originally Posted by Enzefik View Post
    She's the guild sweetheart. You're a new girl. She hates you because you might take attention away from her, even though she's worked her evil magics to make the guys in the guild do whatever the fuck she wants and never be mad at her. To put it simply: She's an attention whore who's pissed that there's a possible threat to her dominion of those people.
    Makes sense. I'm sure us sharing a class, race, and spec doesn't help anything.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Splenda View Post
    I forgot I agreed to sub for a team tonight, so I didn't get to pvp with my best friend. Instead we wiped for 2 hours on heroic Hagara where I got repeatedly blamed for stuff that was not my fault :/ Then I did actually mess up for real and I felt so horrible ._.

    I love them, but I don't like raiding with them. There's a girl on the team that HATES me something fierce, and I truly do not know why. She's also a healer, and that makes me feel all sorts of pressure to perform PERFECTLY because lord knows if I do one little itty bitty thing wrong I get yelled at. But if she does something wrong, everyone laughs and jokes because it's funny.

    I'm completely paranoid that she's going to start bitching at me, so I try too hard and mess up more, and I just can't have any fun with it all.
    Ouch. I honestly never thought about the dynamic involved with chicks in the guild.

    I wish more of them were chill, and that more guys were chill with their chill, so everyone can be chill.

    I miss Safina and her bear's bare ass tanking. Good times.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dontrike View Post


    Yozzers Keen. How are you today?
    Mmmm. Neutral at the moment. My parents had a massive fight an hour ago and I had to step in and break it up when it started to escalate a little too far. So I was extremely disappointed with how immature they were being. However, I also ended up having a great conversation with my dad afterwards. So that was good.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dontrike View Post
    And that is why there was a guild on my server called "No Chicks Allowed" where, you guessed it, women were not allowed in the guild.
    Our guild is something like 40% chicks, but they've all been playing together since vanilla, and some even since EQ. All of them are kind, patient people except for her.

    I joined around Wrath and she and I actually got a long for a little while, and then yeah. Not no mores.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Splenda View Post
    Our guild is something like 40% chicks, but they've all been playing together since vanilla, and some even since EQ. All of them are kind, patient people except for her.

    I joined around Wrath and she and I actually got a long for a little while, and then yeah. Not no mores.
    Maybe you got a piece of loot she wanted or something and she takes those things seriously >_>
    Either way, I'm sorry to hear that

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    Ugh I feel like shit today. Just want to do nothing... Figures.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Splenda View Post
    I forgot I agreed to sub for a team tonight, so I didn't get to pvp with my best friend. Instead we wiped for 2 hours on heroic Hagara where I got repeatedly blamed for stuff that was not my fault :/ Then I did actually mess up for real and I felt so horrible ._.

    I love them, but I don't like raiding with them. There's a girl on the team that HATES me something fierce, and I truly do not know why. She's also a healer, and that makes me feel all sorts of pressure to perform PERFECTLY because lord knows if I do one little itty bitty thing wrong I get yelled at. But if she does something wrong, everyone laughs and jokes because it's funny.

    I'm completely paranoid that she's going to start bitching at me, so I try too hard and mess up more, and I just can't have any fun with it all.
    I don't raid. This is good reason why.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Splenda View Post
    Our guild is something like 40% chicks, but they've all been playing together since vanilla, and some even since EQ. All of them are kind, patience people except for her.

    I joined around Wrath and she and I actually got a long for a little while, and then yeah. Not no mores.
    Right. I have no problem with ladies in the guild, but as long as they play just as well as expected, and don't cause any more drama than any one else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Keenaxe View Post
    Mmmm. Neutral at the moment. My parents had a massive fight an hour ago and I had to step in and break it up when it started to escalate a little too far. So I was extremely disappointed with how immature they were being. However, I also ended up having a great conversation with my dad afterwards. So that was good.
    I can relate. Glad it wasn't all bad though.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Splenda View Post
    And that's true, but I feel just as bad refusing to help them out when I'm perfectly capable of doing it. So I keep raiding and I just keep my mouth shut.



    Nope, I'm kind of scared of her to be honest. I'm a wuss.



    Makes sense. I'm sure us sharing a class, race, and spec doesn't help anything.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pendulous View Post
    I don't raid. This is good reason why.
    I like being the only girl on a team. I prefer to share my company with men than women, women are jerks, and I say this as one.

    And actually come to think of it. For the brief time my guild was doing 25 mans, our guild leader moved the job of healer assigning from an officer to me, because the officer was DPSing instead, and I'm sure that didn't sit well with this other woman. Maybe that's partly why.
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    Quote Originally Posted by DarkFerret View Post
    Evening Keen. How goes?
    Hey Mir. Pretty good on the whole. Burned through some emotional reserves dealing with that parental fight I mentioned.
    Quote Originally Posted by Splenda View Post
    I can relate. Glad it wasn't all bad though.
    Yeah. They'll be fine. A fight like that is extremely rare for them and its been years and years since their last big one.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Splenda View Post
    I forgot I agreed to sub for a team tonight, so I didn't get to pvp with my best friend. Instead we wiped for 2 hours on heroic Hagara where I got repeatedly blamed for stuff that was not my fault :/ Then I did actually mess up for real and I felt so horrible ._.

    I love them, but I don't like raiding with them. There's a girl on the team that HATES me something fierce, and I truly do not know why. She's also a healer, and that makes me feel all sorts of pressure to perform PERFECTLY because lord knows if I do one little itty bitty thing wrong I get yelled at. But if she does something wrong, everyone laughs and jokes because it's funny.

    I'm completely paranoid that she's going to start bitching at me, so I try too hard and mess up more, and I just can't have any fun with it all.
    I had a person like that in my raid group once. I was drunk (doesn't effect my ability to tank) the night I just yelled at them for being pissy with me and demanded to know why and told everyone else if they had a problem with what I was doing at that time to say something or just shut it. I was main tanking so there was no excuse for a healer to not do there job. turned out I was way cheerful to be in the group.
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    Also, I have female friends I love- don't get me wrong :P It's just easier to be around guys for me.
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    I've barely posted today and I feel bad for that, but at least I'll pop in to say g'night.
    So g'night, I Pinkie Pie swear I shall post more tomorrow!
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    But eternity can also fit in one.
    Every second matters.
    Anyone in my line of work knows that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by azmaria View Post
    I had a person like that in my raid group once. I was drunk (doesn't effect my ability to tank) the night I just yelled at them for being pissy with me and demanded to know why and told everyone else if they had a problem with what I was doing at that time to say something or just shut it. I was main tanking so there was no excuse for a healer to not do there job. turned out I was way cheerful to be in the group.
    Ha. I'm just waiting for MoP to come out and I get my team back. All the chill folks <3

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    Quote Originally Posted by Shaedris View Post
    I've barely posted today and I feel bad for that, but at least I'll pop in to say g'night.
    So g'night, I Pinkie Pie swear I shall post more tomorrow!
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