*sighs*
People need to stop throwing around the word "blame" like they're looking down at you, sniggering, and calling you an idiot. Because that's not what they're doing. Some people in customer service just blindly follow procedure, or else just aren't the brightest of the bunch to begin with. Sometimes they just don't know the right way to help you, and they're doing their best to figure out the solution.
Seriously, when somebody says that you're responsible for being hacked, stop trying to be insulted. There's no insult in it.