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    Quote Originally Posted by yeast View Post
    They make me jelly

    Also, hi Demb! I haven't seen you in a while. How are things?
    Pretty downright horrifying.

    My poor father in law has, in the past year, has dropped to under 100 lbs (as someone who is 6'2"), found out (finally) that he has esophogical cancer, of which less then 20% of people who have it make it for more than a year, is being recommended for a surgical procedure that he's telling his son is "scaring him" but is actually something that he would only be recommended for if he were still losing weight (which means he's been lying about his progress).

    Which doesn't bode well for why he's suddenly calling us up to be with him. It probably means that he's been given only a very short time to live.

    And I can't tell my husband that because he's got to drive for 6 hours today with me and my son in a car in order to get us up there.

    My husband is in such severe denial, even I don't want to burst his bubble about his dad's odds, and what this proceedure means for his father.

    Especially since his father signed a DNR a few months ago that means that if he should ever require being hooked to a machine to live...he wants to be taken off it.

    And this proceedure? Yeah. That's going to be a tough one. You push the tumor out of the way so he can eat...and due to it's positioning...you crowd out one or both lungs somewhat.

    That means a machine.

    So today, I'm going to have to watch my father in law tell my husband that he is going to die - because he won't live on a machine. And I can't even warn him.

    And I have to hold it together and pretend like this is nothing for 6 long hours in a car.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Affixiation View Post
    Its k though, I let trixie blow up my tree house after as vengeance.
    It's no fun if you allow it though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dembai View Post
    Pretty downright horrifying.
    -Snip-
    That sucks Dembai

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dembai View Post
    Snip


    Seriously, that absolutely sucks...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dembai View Post
    WHAT'S WRONG WITH HUGE TITS?!

    ::has huge tits::

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blue Thunder View Post
    [IMG]http://images1.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20110611170720/gyropedia/images/4/40/Wingboner.png[/IG]
    Also this.

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    thread talks about chesticles and Seely appears? ... coincidence? i think not..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dembai View Post
    Pretty downright horrifying.
    And I have to hold it together and pretend like this is nothing for 6 long hours in a car.
    That's not good at all

    Quote Originally Posted by Blue Thunder View Post
    [IMG]http://images1.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20110611170720/gyropedia/images/4/40/Wingboner.png[/IG]

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    Quote Originally Posted by DarkFerret View Post
    Hey Worer. How's it going?
    Just came back from the school, looking forward to buy a bigger desk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dembai View Post
    Pretty downright horrifying.

    snips and snails.
    Well... Fuck....

    That is just downright awful...

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    Quote Originally Posted by isi View Post
    thread talks about chesticles and Seely appears? ... coincidence? i think not..
    Issssssssssssssssiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

    * Glomps and snuggles Isi

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    Quote Originally Posted by isi View Post
    thread talks about chesticles and Seely appears? ... coincidence? i think not..
    We all know what you and your master like. It's all about


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    Get a corner desk. I love mine. Tons of room for what's usually an unused space in a room.
    Walking to Mordor. 120.4/6230km
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    Quote Originally Posted by Dembai View Post
    Pretty downright horrifying.
    I'm so sorry. Having someone in denial about something like that is tortuous, especially when you're that close to them. You've been through a lot of trauma recently and it isn't fair that you have to go through more.
    I'm not sure if I've ever said this to you before, but I admire you. The way you handle yourself in these situations is amazing. In fact, I probably respect you the most out of anybody in the thread. So I know you'll be able to handle this better than the majority of people. Still, I wish you didn't have to go through this in the first place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dembai View Post
    Pretty downright horrifying.

    My poor father in law has, in the past year, has dropped to under 100 lbs (as someone who is 6'2"), found out (finally) that he has esophogical cancer, of which less then 20% of people who have it make it for more than a year, is being recommended for a surgical procedure that he's telling his son is "scaring him" but is actually something that he would only be recommended for if he were still losing weight (which means he's been lying about his progress).

    Which doesn't bode well for why he's suddenly calling us up to be with him. It probably means that he's been given only a very short time to live.

    And I can't tell my husband that because he's got to drive for 6 hours today with me and my son in a car in order to get us up there.

    My husband is in such severe denial, even I don't want to burst his bubble about his dad's odds, and what this proceedure means for his father.

    Especially since his father signed a DNR a few months ago that means that if he should ever require being hooked to a machine to live...he wants to be taken off it.

    And this proceedure? Yeah. That's going to be a tough one. You push the tumor out of the way so he can eat...and due to it's positioning...you crowd out one or both lungs somewhat.

    That means a machine.

    So today, I'm going to have to watch my father in law tell my husband that he is going to die - because he won't live on a machine. And I can't even warn him.

    And I have to hold it together and pretend like this is nothing for 6 long hours in a car.
    Well...that's pretty damn awful.


    Even more awful that I still got boobies on the mind.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thoroar View Post
    That's not good at all
    [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/jLvbLm.jpg[/IG]


    [IMG]http://i.imgur.com/lMvRO.gif[/IM]
    You planned for me to get a boner?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dembai View Post
    Pretty downright horrifying.
    Aaaah damn Dembai. I wish you the best of luck, and I hope something turns around for you two sometime soon.

    I wish I could offer more. I'm sincerely sorry to hear about this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blue Thunder View Post
    You planned for me to get a boner?

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    Aaaand it's time to get to class. Talk to you ponies later!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Flutterguy View Post
    This manipulation of royal canterlot posting will not stand!
    What'cha gonna do 'bout it, huh?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Thoroar View Post
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    I am okay with this development.

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