Originally Posted by
tristannarutofan
I'm not lookng to get sucked into this argument. I definately think it sucks for a man be forced to have a child if the woman wants to keep it, and it sucks for a woman if the man doesnt take responsibility.
Either way....
this right here is complete bollox. "invade another person". Psh. I believe the entire issue is over consensual sex. I dont think anyone here is arguing on the side of rapists. And hopefully no one is talking about cases of ignorance because thats an issue about spreading knowledge of safe sex, not an issue about birth control.
You make it sound like the man is the only person involved. Just as women having to carry babies is unfair, so is the fact that leads up to that. That if you are a woman, sorry, but you know that if you have sex with a man you could get pregnant. Every woman over the age of 13 should know that if anyone in her life is doing anything right.
You can demonize a man for what he does after a pregnancy is discovered. But you cant demonize him for making the same decision the woman did.