Isn't it? Or is that just spin?
I am aware of the dangers of back-alley abortions, but that's entirely besides the point.Pregnancies involve significant risks and are akin to physical trauma. Not allowing a woman to avoid something like that if they aren't wanting children is pretty cruel, and would only see an increase in dangerous DIY abortions which carry numerous risks.
I've seen numerous women go through pregnancies. And while the experience is not the greatest thing one can experience(at times), I would hardly call a pregnancy akin to "physical trauma".
So, a man can't force a woman to have an abortion, and you're also unwilling to give him the right to opt out of parenthood. An option that you're willing to give to women...because they suffered immeasurably through pregnancy? I may be speaking from personal experience, but as far as "physical trauma" and "suffering" go, pregnancy isn't very high on the list. Some women LOVE being pregnant and having children, for them the experience is positive unlike any other.The reason men can't throw away their potential child is because they can't bear children. If it affected their bodily autonomy, it would be immoral. If the father doesn't want the child, there's not much he can do without forcing the woman to have an abortion, which would be heinous. The child has a parent that is willing to look after it and take care of it, however if it's found that without support from the people responsible for bringing it into the world it would be impoverished or suffer in some way then courts will award alimony.
You're not going to win me over by saying that pregnancy is a horrible traumatic experience filled with nothing but suffering, therefore the man MUST be forced to support her decision.
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Sure, i'm not saying men need the same options, they can't because only women gestate babies. They just need equitable options.
Above and beyond preventative measures, a woman has the option to abort or adopt away. A man has neither of those options. He cannot legally sign away his fatherly rights to the mother if she doesn't allow him to, and he cannot abort his pending parenthood.
All I'm saying on this particular matter is that father's should have an option similar to that of the mother, without having to take your one-night-stand to a lawyer and have her sign a legal document saying you're not going to be responsible for any kids she may or may not have.